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Not trying to be offensive to you, RabiSankor, but it's possible that you could be being a little overly self-conscious about it and women are picking up on it. Believe it or not confidence and a positive attitude can go a long way
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Being confident and positive is going to attract women no matter where you are. Well, unless they're specifically looking for an insecure guy to leech off of...
Whenever I'm in SF, I see a fair number of Indian guys with white women, especially Indian-American/Americanized guys. Have you tried the SOMA crowd? Basically an intermixed White-Asian-IndoPak, young upper-middle to upper-class crowd.
I live in a diverse middle class area and I have never seen it in 2 years here.
As for being insecure. Well I thought it was just me until I started venturing on some online forums and saw a long list of threads by indian guys saying how women don't want them because they are Indian.
A lot of the women here have told me openly in front my face that they do not do foreigners.
I live in a diverse middle class area and I have never seen it in 2 years here.
As for being insecure. Well I thought it was just me until I started venturing on some online forums and saw a long list of threads by indian guys saying how women don't want them because they are Indian.
A lot of the women here have told me openly in front my face that they do not do foreigners.
Like I said, the whole SOMA crowd, i.e. in the SOMA area. You see it around Union Square and the Financial District as well.
Like I said, the whole SOMA crowd, i.e. in the SOMA area. You see it around Union Square and the Financial District as well.
I agree, I lived in the bay area for 16 years and have seen mixed Indian/*insert other race* couples around SF as well as the east and south bays. Even Santa Cruz, in fact I had a friend in Santa Cruz that was born in India and grew up in London(he had an English accent) that was dating a blonde woman for a while. I still think it comes down to confidence and the way you carry yourself. When you're overly self-conscious and discouraged women DO pick up on that. Im sorry you've had negative experiences with women saying things like that to your face. Some do harbor that attitude, but there's several million people in the bay area, just be persistent, and most importantly, be yourself, have fun and don't try too hard, things of that nature tend to happen when you least expect it. Good luck!
I agree, I lived in the bay area for 16 years and have seen mixed Indian/*insert other race* couples around SF as well as the east and south bays. Even Santa Cruz, in fact I had a friend in Santa Cruz that was born in India and grew up in London(he had an English accent) that was dating a blonde woman for a while. I still think it comes down to confidence and the way you carry yourself. When you're overly self-conscious and discouraged women DO pick up on that. Im sorry you've had negative experiences with women saying things like that to your face. Some do harbor that attitude, but there's several million people in the bay area, just be persistent, and most importantly, be yourself, have fun and don't try too hard, things of that nature tend to happen when you least expect it. Good luck!
I may have dated their daughter when I first moved to SF...
I live in a diverse middle class area and I have never seen it in 2 years here.
Where? Sunnyvale? Santa Clara? Cupertino? Union City? Oakland? Redwood City? Fremont? Palo Alto? Daly City? San Mateo? Milpitas? Mountain View? San Jose?
In San Francisco? Where? Sunset district? Castro? Richmond district? Bernal heights? Mission Dolores? Silver terrace? Bayview? Upper Market?
Where do you live that you're having these problems?
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As for being insecure. Well I thought it was just me until I started venturing on some online forums and saw a long list of threads by indian guys saying how women don't want them because they are Indian.
What does this have to do with San Francisco and the rest of the bay? Just sounds like you're bad at socializing IMO.
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A lot of the women here have told me openly in front my face that they do not do foreigners.
This cant be true considering the bay is VERY FOREIGN.
I know white girls/Latinas who dated Indian guys in NYC. I couldn't tell you about the overall success rate, though.
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That ain't my scene... IIRC this girl's dad was a professor at UCSC.
