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Exactly. It's not real rape. You're blaming the victim(the man). I'm NOT talking about someone passed out here. I'm talking about someone who's a willing participant whose drunk. A woman is responsible for her actions when she is drunk. If she decides to drive and kills someone she deals with the consequences. If she decides to sleep with half the football team while wasted then that is on her! No one else. Don't drink to excess. That's the lesson to be learned. Not charging an innocent man with rape.
True. Women need to take responsibility for their alcohol consumption. But a dude who takes advantage of a women in a drunk state is knowingly going for easy pickings. He's just as responsible. If you don't want to do the time, don't do the crime. Be smart, avoid potentially troublesome situations. Times have changed since the 50's. It's no longer cool to feed a woman alcohol just so you can use her.
I saw this woman and her "groundbreaking" video, again, on CNN. She also apparently took a burn when certain men had the unmitigated gall to [gasp!] "make direct eye contact."
Who the opposite of heaven does this surly-looking dame think she is, Madonna?
The video you saw on CNN was a tiny excerpt of 10 HOURS of tape that were recorded where at least 100 catcalls were collected, not "eye contact."
True. Women need to take responsibility for their alcohol consumption. But a dude who takes advantage of a women in a drunk state is knowingly going for easy pickings. He's just as responsible. If you don't want to do the time, don't do the crime. Be smart, avoid potentially troublesome situations. Times have changed since the 50's. It's no longer cool to feed a woman alcohol just so you can use her.
Or maybe she is "using" him. What's with this ridiculous double standard? What if the man is more drunk than the woman and he's in a relationship and alchol gets the better of him. Should SHE be charged with rape?
IS HAVING SEX WITH A DRUNK WOMAN RAPE? Should men have Alcohol breath tests they give a woman before inserting their sexual organ? What about a signed contract with a notarized copy from her shrink?
We're obsessed with protecting "young girls" and we keep raising the age of what we consider to be an adult. I wonder when the legal age of consent goes to 21 next and 3/4 of college girls are now children and it's "rape" even if they do consent? I'm really sick and tired of seeing men portrayed as predators of women. It's really sick.
I saw this woman and her "groundbreaking" video, again, on CNN. She also apparently took a burn when certain men had the unmitigated gall to [gasp!] "make direct eye contact."
Who the opposite of heaven does this surly-looking dame think she is, Madonna?
Why's she "surly-looking"? Another poster said she looked "sexually open". I think she looked like an average woman walking purposefully, like she had to be somewhere by a certain time. She wasn't strolling to enjoy a walk, she was on her way somewhere, it looked like. And her complaint wasn't about "eye contact". There was no eye contact. She kept her eyes looking straight forward, avoiding contact.
Let me put it this way. Two men are so drunk they have sex with each other. Is it rape? Whose the rapist? Is the guy whose the "top" the rapist? What if they took turns?
Now compare that to a straight man being brutally anally raped in a prison cell. REAL RAPE.
Get it now?
You know what you're doing when you're drunk. Women should be ashamed of themselves to call this stuff rape. Go to the congo where REAL rape is going on or to a REAL victim of a stranger rapist here in the U.S. that was brutalized.
Or maybe she is "using" him. What's with this ridiculous double standard? What if the man is more drunk than the woman and he's in a relationship and alchol gets the better of him. Should SHE be charged with rape?
IS HAVING SEX WITH A DRUNK WOMAN RAPE? Should men have Alcohol breath tests they give a woman before inserting their sexual organ? What about a signed contract with a notarized copy from her shrink?
We're obsessed with protecting "young girls" and we keep raising the age of what we consider to be an adult. I wonder when the legal age of consent goes to 21 next and 3/4 of college girls are now children and it's "rape" even if they do consent? I'm really sick and tired of seeing men portrayed as predators of women. It's really sick.
Chill. It's just about common sense. It's about minimizing potential hassles in life.
Let me put it this way. Two men are so drunk they have sex with each other. Is it rape? Whose the rapist? Is the guy whose the "top" the rapist? What if they took turns?
That's a good question. The author Sherman Alexie wrote a story about exactly that scenario. Whether or not it was rape remained unanswered, but the dude who had it unexpectedly forced on him wasn't happy the next day.
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video, again, on CNN. She also apparently took a burn when certain men had the unmitigated gall to [gasp!] "make direct eye contact."
