MuffinBang:
What do you mean "
it's always been a day dream?"
Do you mean: A} that you don't make enough to save? then get a second or third job or both. Improve your income.
B} that you don't budget so you don't know where your money goes? Then work up a monthly budget, and re-work it every week as bills are paid and money comes in!
C} that you 'can't save" {lacking discipline?} Then put it into auto-mode. That is- set up a christmas account at the bank or credit union and have EVEN just $10/pay period put into it automatically..that is $520/yr for weekly pay you'd save annually without trying and you don't ever touch it or see it! Then put into a Money market account if you can for emergency cash account and DO NOT TOUCH unless
emergency arises..and NO A SALE at Bloomingdale's is NOT an emergency! An emergency is losing your job, being out of house and home {if you lost it by fire or other means}, or other such!
D} do you mean that you blow every penny coming in? then do as above in "B"--budget and in "C" with a higher dollar amount and then YOU CAN'T spend it!
We need more info from you to tell you what/how to make that day dream of yours become a reality!
We have 3 income streams{one steady, two variable}...all three get "auto-deducted" each, to investments or to a special account like a christmas club. It is 10% of our income. Another 5% I do manually just 'cause as someone said, I like the "feeling of doing it myself",though it will shortly get auto-deducted too...AT LEAST that much gets saved per month.
I budget every month In advance {I am budgeted out to July and August already, too much further and it can be somewhat unrealistic as things may change}. Then rework weekly as the bills get paid, and the money comes in {monthly for one, bi weekly for the second, and weekly for the third.} I re-work the budget as needed also.
I allow for $400 of "miscellaneous" or "other" expenses that MAy crop up per month....that way I don't have to dip into savings if we get a special medical bill or other random bill that is not in the regular budget. IF any of it is there at the end of the month, it goes directly into savings.
WE rarely eat out, if we do it comes out of that $400 odd amount as a "Other expense".
Both our cars are paid for-One brand new, one is now 9 years old and will be kept another 5-6 years, then a replacement bought IF NEED be. There is a "car fund" account with a "payment amount" {to ourselves} put into it so that when a new/newer car is needed we have the money to buy it outright, or reduce the debt crunch on a new/newer one.
Any raise gets banked. as long as it can, as prices do go up, so will pay.
Any extra left at the end of the month, besides the $400 odd, is put into savings.
Besides a cash account for emergencies, we have also laddered CDs, rolling them all over. Right now better interest than just sitting in savings. We can always cash one in {with a penalty IF urgently needed}, but haven't yet. We started laddering with just the lowest amount the bank or Credit Union would allow {usually $500 could be higher requirement at your institution}, then add to it and roll over again and again and again, adding in the interest we earned too.
We have other auto-deducted investements NOT included in our 'cash savings" and as cash builds up above emergency, we look where it can go for better return. {IRAs for example- you can start one too!}
WE Re-Evaluate our bills, annually- when the natural gas heat went up, we turned
down the thermostat! When the A/C cost went up, we turned
up the thermostat or left it off for awhile. We think we are paying too much for cable now, and in MAY if we can't get another "deal" we will drop TV stations or TV all together.
We shop around and try to avoid just doing the 'net shopping {my one down fall} as it is too easy to sit in your easy chair and "point and click" your way into debt!
Hope these {and the same/other suggestions by others here} help you to realize your day dream! Its really not that hard.
JUST GET STARTED with auto-deduct and go from there!