Being proud of your country doesn't mean that you would be willing to defend, i'm actually more proud of the work of a few of my countrymen rather than i am of my country. The concept of Italy as a country is also quite recent and until recently there wasn't even an Italian wide culture. I know that most people wouldn't raise a finger to defend this country and i'm one of them
As long as i get to keep my culture, traditions and usual day to day life ecc. i wouldn't even mind if Austria or Germany conquered us
If i couldn't and my freedom would be at risk of being hindered then i would considering fighting but more for myself and my family rather than for my country