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Old 06-04-2013, 01:23 PM
 
Location: Up North
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I don't know why ths bothers me ,but watching females from behind,not staring at their behind,but looking at how tight their close fit them,proving the overhanging fat just above the bra under the arm pit.
Once in a while I see a woman that wears clothes the actually fit her by a 360 view, that says volumes to me .
Even skinny girls can have over hanging fat bulging there , it only means they are wearing the wrong bra.
The same goes for panties .
Wearing panties that are plainly too small or the wrong style, emphsizes the bulge .
I know you want to look thinner but lieing to your self doesn't help.
Bikini panties especially when they are too tight are like xray vision you can see the distortion.(not impressive)
Full bottom panties work better for those the plainly have a less definition . I don't now how else to put it.
Those that already have good definition, the thong or french cut work OK.
Another issue is arms /wings ,don't know how else to put it.
Nice looking arms speak of some one that is active and flexable ,healthy. they don't need to be muscular , just not fabby.
Leggs are a big issue but like arms ,their shape reflect health. Muscle tone in the calf in particular.
I am an artist , mostly faces on paper using pensil only.
I realize that there is a lot of stress in the world and woment have it as hard as any one, may be worse in some ways.
While a person can't help the face their given they can control their attitude, and the plastic smile may win the desperate or drunk , but a genuine smile knowing your worth something, can even take a face coverd in lines can bring warmth.
I see lots of women, that at the last muinet decided to do something about their condition and then aI see others that have been dilligently maintaining them selves.
Good habbits are easier to maintain as a life style not as a whim.
I value currosity and intelligence and honesty.

I feel like only a woman would notice and bothered by stuff like back fat on a skinny woman because she is wearing the wrong bra. Almost everything you said is so nit picky.
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Old 06-04-2013, 01:26 PM
 
Location: Up North
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Superho!!

I have big boobs and butt and am hourglass shaped. I wore a long maxi dress today that is fitted in the torso and chest area and just skims over my butt and legs and people would not stop staring at me today. It was very uncomfortable especially when they were old perverted guys.

I didn't have skin showing so I don't know what to do at this point! I guess I just have to accept that my body type that I was born with may make me seem like a ****
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Old 06-04-2013, 01:49 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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I have big boobs and butt and am hourglass shaped. I wore a long maxi dress today that is fitted in the torso and chest area and just skims over my butt and legs and people would not stop staring at me today. It was very uncomfortable especially when they were old perverted guys.

I didn't have skin showing so I don't know what to do at this point! I guess I just have to accept that my body type that I was born with may make me seem like a ****
I was kidding.

I totally understand as I have a similar body type (albeit bigger). Happens to me as well. One reason i rarely show cleavage. It is just too annoying, I don't like the attention. I can't imagine if I actually was wearing a low cut shirt.


I am on my phone, please forgive the typos.
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Old 06-04-2013, 02:05 PM
 
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I was kidding.

I totally understand as I have a similar body type (albeit bigger). Happens to me as well. One reason i rarely show cleavage. It is just too annoying, I don't like the attention. I can't imagine if I actually was wearing a low cut shirt.


I am on my phone, please forgive the typos.

I knew you were! I guess its hard to express tone over the internet. I was just building on what you were saying.
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Old 06-04-2013, 02:14 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I feel like only a woman would notice and bothered by stuff like back fat on a skinny woman because she is wearing the wrong bra. Almost everything you said is so nit picky.
Seriously. We can refer to that post when anyone says how men don't notice things and aren't picky about what women look like.
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Old 06-04-2013, 02:23 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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I was kidding.

I totally understand as I have a similar body type (albeit bigger). Happens to me as well. One reason i rarely show cleavage. It is just too annoying, I don't like the attention. I can't imagine if I actually was wearing a low cut shirt.


I am on my phone, please forgive the typos.


I wore a light pink tank top (not really low cut at all) with a black cardigan today and wore my cute Cleo tshirt bra. Well, riding the bus wasn't fun and I had a bunch of men just blatantly staring at my boobs whenever we went over any bumpy parts. I may have to go back to my '5 point harness' bra when going to work to minimize bounce It's a super cute bra, too.
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Old 06-04-2013, 02:30 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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I wore a light pink tank top (not really low cut at all) with a black cardigan today and wore my cute Cleo tshirt bra. Well, riding the bus wasn't fun and I had a bunch of men just blatantly staring at my boobs whenever we went over any bumpy parts. I may have to go back to my '5 point harness' bra when going to work to minimize bounce It's a super cute bra, too.
I just got a new Cleo bra and the store workers called it the "implant bra." Another woman bought one, and people kept asking if she had implants so she went to buy another one. :P


I am on my phone, please forgive the typos.
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Old 06-04-2013, 02:34 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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I just got a new Cleo bra and the store workers called it the "implant bra." Another woman bought one, and people kept asking if she had implants so she went to buy another one. :P


I am on my phone, please forgive the typos.
That's pretty much what mine does

I needed something with a lower cut and molded cups because I have a maxi dress that drapes in the front and if there's a bit of a wind it can show a higher cut bra when the fabric moves. Wouldn't want an accident.
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Old 06-04-2013, 02:47 PM
 
Location: Ft. Myers
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I love a woman in a short skirt and boots. Something about that leg showing between the two. But another favorite of mine is a woman in white shorts, if they new how good that looked they would all be wearing them.

Don
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Old 06-04-2013, 02:47 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Actually...it depends on your body type. I've talked to people who think those outfits can be desperate or slutty if you have big boobs, or a big butt, or an hourglass figure etc.

Hell, I got told I looked slutty while wearing a knee length pencil skirt with a dress shirt buttoned up to my collarbones.
The burqa was made for you!

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