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Wanting to find out what you guys think about scars on a girl?
When I was young, I had to have a large operation on my leg, which left me with a scar the length of my thigh, as well as smaller ones at other places on both of my legs. Because of this, I don't really wear shorts, since the scars attract attention.
So my question would be, do scars like that turn a guy off? (since that has happened ...)
I know this was directed to the male population, but I felt the need to input my 2cents.
Honestly, as a woman (not a man) I can't imagine being particularly self conscious about a scar that wasn't large and on my face (I can see how some facial scars would be distressing of course, but even in the case of facial scars, one on my chin or forehead wouldn't bother me much). As for scars on legs or arms - nyahhhh. Don't worry about it.
As for scars on more private parts of your body, I can tell you one way not to get too stressed about those - don't let anyone who doesn't love you for who you are INSIDE access to those more private areas. If they love you for who you are, and are deserving enough to know your body so intimately, the scars will NOT matter.
Nope. Not a turnoff at all. Nothing wrong with some surgical scars on a woman. I would only have problem with C-section scars or cigarette burns on a woman. Those are extremely gross and extreme turnoffs.
Wait what?
So you are ok with surgical scars; but not a c-section which is a SURGICAL scar?!
My husband never knew for the 1st year we were together I had even had a c-section with my oldest. My scar from it is TINY and hidden in my pubic hair.
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Originally Posted by Hedgehog_Mom
How many C-section scars have you seen? It's done where the body creases naturally, and it's usually about 5" long. After a couple of years, it's a faint flesh-colored line.
Mine's not even that big. It's roughly 3" long, and my Doc was a magician with c-sections.
Honestly, as a woman (not a man) I can't imagine being particularly self conscious about a scar that wasn't large and on my face (I can see how some facial scars would be distressing of course, but even in the case of facial scars, one on my chin or forehead wouldn't bother me much). As for scars on legs or arms - nyahhhh. Don't worry about it.
As for scars on more private parts of your body, I can tell you one way not to get too stressed about those - don't let anyone who doesn't love you for who you are INSIDE access to those more private areas. If they love you for who you are, and are deserving enough to know your body so intimately, the scars will NOT matter.
KathrynAragon, I see your point. scars that are more visible, like on the face, could make someone quite self conscious, but even on the legs, especially when it comes to summer, become noticeable as well, as they don't tan the same and stand out even more. just after a while, it gets more annoying, than making me insecure, that people stare (and sometimes obviously talk about my scars in ear shot )
But thank you you are right, those who have known me since before I had them or those I've met after, were a bit shocked at first, but now they even forget about them
Raised scars look bad. Probably anything I could see from more than a few feet away would turn me off. That's happened to me while watching porn (augmentation scars). Also, I know a man with large scars on his arm that look like the aftermath of a knife, and it's disturbing.
So you are ok with surgical scars; but not a c-section which is a SURGICAL scar?!
My husband never knew for the 1st year we were together I had even had a c-section with my oldest. My scar from it is TINY and hidden in my pubic hair.
C-section scars have a different implication - kids. Its a turnoff to me. If she had a surgery because of some illness or something that is quite different. kids are like - ugh.
well i would like to leave this with u guys i am 28 years old and since i was 7 month old baby our house catch fire and i was sleeping on the Flore and i got burn on both foot and leg as i grow the mark stretches and i am married to a wonderful guy from Florida he the same age with me we have a beautiful daughter he never care about my burn i keep wearing long cloths when i go out but when i am home i wear short close he is the best thing ever to happen in my life he never treat me bad or love me less with my burn and i had a CS for my daughter and the scar is there my husband always kiss there i would like all u guys out there to see this message cause it take a real man to acpet a woman they way she is and love her we all want to be love i think my husband is god send for me cause there is non like him i see out there and he is very handsome and never yet one day he cheat on me and we doing long distance and he very attach to his daughter and love me as much as i love him and i never make my burn put me down in life
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