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I'm not sure where you are getting this. I don't see too many men being vilified for liking big boobs. I do see some men vilified for wanting a woman whose dimensions are simply unattainable in real life. But just liking big boobs (or boobs in general) will not get you vilified. At least not in my experience.
Because women with big boobs are generally considered to be dumb, loose, floozies, tramps, or cheap. Many people call them either fat or fake and thus not desireable. So it goes with the men who desire them. Insecure average sized women and some women who have big boobs use them as an excuse when they do or don't get what they want out of life because of the way society views large breasts. So it goes with the men who enjoy them.
This thread cracks me up. It is not wrong to be mesmerized by boobs. It is natural and many men are (from all walks of life). However, IMO, it is improper (and dumb) to catcall women about it, or have a 5 minute conversation while uninterruptedly staring at the boobs. Have some restraint and class.
My hubby is mesmerized by my (real) boobs, but he did not declare this to me until after we had gotten to know each other. He just discreetly would sneak peeks. I don't really care if men are mesmerized by big boobs as, in a strange way, it may have given me some weird competitive advantage in life.
I am far from being considered dumb, cheap, loose, etc. as is evident by my personality and career. However, if some impressionable chap has been distracted in an exec meeting by my well-fitting conservatively cut cashmere sweater and consequently signs on to purchase a system from me without evaluating other options - well that is his problem (not sure if this has happened or not, but men sometimes do make very illogical decisions due to boob worship).
In my experience, big boobs, a pretty face, and a sharp intellect can certainly be very distracting assets. It is human nature. Women, why not be in control of the power that it affords?
p.s. I know the above is not politically correct, but I don't care.
It COULD be those of us who are tired of men having conversations with our chests. Look at my eyes when I am speaking to you. This has been happening to me since I was a preteen, and it is not flattering. It is something that makes me feel like an object, not a person. Liking big boobs should be a personal preference that is kept to oneself. Then, who would know, and who would care?
There's nothing wrong with liking and admiring big boobs. It's when you ignore that there's a whole woman attached to them, that's when it becomes a problem.
Women don't appreciate being reduced to just a pair of mammaries.
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Mesmerizing boobs can be good
