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Old 11-01-2014, 02:41 PM
 
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This might be a weird/dumb ques, but how can someone who's cute start looking sexy? I have blonde hair, big eyes and lips... I have big teeth and a gap (which sucks) and I have such round soft features and I come off looking young & all doe eyed. I've always been told I'm cute but never hot or sexy. With how I look I wonder if what I want to look like is even possible.
I like "Cute".

What modern society defines as "sexy" or "hot" is a bit of a turn off for me.

Are both looks attractive to the neanderthal in me? Yes. But I prefer cute, normal, innocent, and down to earth.

I'll take bare feet, a tee shirt and sweats; skip the gaudy makeup, flashy jewelry and high heels.
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Old 11-01-2014, 02:45 PM
 
Location: Northville, MI
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I like "Cute".

What modern society defines as "sexy" or "hot" is a bit of a turn off for me.

Are both looks attractive to the neanderthal in me? Yes. But I prefer cute, normal, innocent, and down to earth.

I'll take bare feet, a tee shirt and sweats; skip the gaudy makeup, flashy jewelry and high heels.
Sounds like me. I need to be able to relate with someone, their situation, their reactions, and other stuff in order to truly feel for them.
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Old 11-01-2014, 02:47 PM
 
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I like "Cute".

What modern society defines as "sexy" or "hot" is a bit of a turn off for me.

Are both looks attractive to the neanderthal in me? Yes. But I prefer cute, normal, innocent, and down to earth.

I'll take bare feet, a tee shirt and sweats; skip the gaudy makeup, flashy jewelry and high heels.
That can be sexy.
The gaudy makeup, flashy jewellery-?That sounds trashy to me.
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Old 11-01-2014, 02:51 PM
 
Location: Encino, CA
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I like "Cute".

What modern society defines as "sexy" or "hot" is a bit of a turn off for me.
I always laugh when people say stuff like this. No one is talking about what "society" says. Sounds like the OP is asking for individual opinions, not what "modern society" says about what is, and what is not sexy.
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Old 11-01-2014, 02:53 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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I've always been called cute and I am chronically young looking. Sex appeal comes from within. Not your outfit. Not your body. You'll find everyone has a story about someone who was not "conventionally attractive" yet they found them super sexy. It is more about aura than anything else. You might have grow into your inner sexy appeal.
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Old 11-01-2014, 03:14 PM
 
Location: The Triad
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I've always been told I'm cute but never hot or sexy.

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Old 11-01-2014, 03:32 PM
 
Location: Myrtle Creek, Oregon
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Sexy is how you act, with the advantage that you can target it to the man you are interested in without looking like a hooker. Touch him. Put your hand on his, take his arm when you are standing side by side. Stand close. If he's not a lump, he will get the idea, and think you are really sexy. When you have sex, don't be an ice queen. Share your pleasure with him. Don't expect him to be a mind reader, let him know when he does something right. It won't be long before he thinks you are the hottest woman he ever met.
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Old 11-01-2014, 04:06 PM
 
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This might be a weird/dumb ques, but how can someone who's cute start looking sexy? I have blonde hair, big eyes and lips... I have big teeth and a gap (which sucks) and I have such round soft features and I come off looking young & all doe eyed. I've always been told I'm cute but never hot or sexy. With how I look I wonder if what I want to look like is even possible.

I have tried watching youtube make-up tutorials for sultry looks but the girls all have almond shaped eyes and high cheekbones & angular faces lol. It's easy for them to pull of that look! especially with darker features.

I want to feel sexier in the bedroom too or be seen as "hot", instead of just "cute" "adorable". I was thinking of buying lingerie but I'm not sure where to start?

Anyway any tips for someone with round features? Or is the look I wanna go for hopeless?
What do you mean by "round features"? Is that code for fat?
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Old 11-01-2014, 05:03 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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What do you mean by "round features"? Is that code for fat?
I think she means a round face. I have the same thing.. I'm pretty thin but my face still looks round. There's really nothing you can do about it.
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Old 11-01-2014, 05:26 PM
 
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I think she means a round face. I have the same thing.. I'm pretty thin but my face still looks round. There's really nothing you can do about it.
Oh...ok, gotcha.
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