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Old 02-03-2015, 02:45 PM
 
Location: Texas
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So...men think it is gross to be hit on by another strange guy, but women aren't supposed to think it's gross.

Got it.

 
Old 02-03-2015, 02:47 PM
 
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Too many overweight guys in the US.

A well built and/or muscular Asian, Latino or maybe French guy in a speedo .. yummmm
Just out of curiosity, if someone were to post that theyd never date an asian, latino, or frenchman would they be considered racist?

Nevermind...silly thought.


Hey heres a thought. The guys could do like all the girls are doing now and wear leggings with them.
 
Old 02-03-2015, 02:51 PM
 
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American women love speedos, on the right guys.
Doubt it. Of all the good looking guys on the beach, how many of them do you see wear speedos?
 
Old 02-03-2015, 02:53 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Doubt it. Of all the good looking guys on the beach, how many of them do you see wear speedos?
That's because their choice doesn't relate to women's opinion. It goes back to the gay issue.
 
Old 02-03-2015, 03:00 PM
 
Location: Prosper
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So the question is, why do women find guys in speedos not attractive only in the US? Certainly women in Asia, Europe, South America, etc. do not think that way.
Shrug. Most likely, it boils down to pop culture. Look at all the commercials out there for advertisements showing guys at the beach. They all show guys in long shorts, or in some cases, they'll show a guy in a Speedo as some sort of joke.

Americans are a lot more uptight about our bodies and how we look than the rest of the world is. In Brazil for example, you'll see both "ugly" and "good" looking people showing lots of skin. You'll see guys in Speedos, and you'll see women in skimpy two pieces. With both cases, you'll see people that aren't exactly the attractive type... but they don't care, because it's what everyone wears, whether you are attractive or not.

It's like going to a nude beach and being the only one wearing a swimsuit, you're going to be the odd person out and getting all the stares.
 
Old 02-03-2015, 03:09 PM
 
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That's because their choice doesn't relate to women's opinion. It goes back to the gay issue.
All right American ladies, we need your opinions. When you see a guy with a good body wearing a speedo on the beach, do you think he is:

1) attractive
2) gay
3) weird
4) neither
 
Old 02-03-2015, 03:10 PM
 
Location: Prosper
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Exactly! Women don't think speedos are unattractive. American women love speedos, on the right guys. Not on the paunchy, blobby guys.
It doesn't matter what kind of guy wears them in this country. They're not viewed as being in style. If a good looking guy got dressed up for a formal function, but instead of the standard suit/tie, he decides to wear suspenders and a bow tie, people are going to pass judgment, and think he made a poor choice, regardless of whether he's attractive or not. Speedos represent the same bad fashion choice in this country.
 
Old 02-03-2015, 03:13 PM
 
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I'll bet a Ben Franklin if you polled a statistically-valid sampling of 100 American women, say age 18-50, and asked them if they "liked" the visual of an average man in speedos....then did the same with 100 American men, similar demographic, if they "liked" a well-endowed woman in a bikini...

...You'd have vastly more "nays" among the women vs. men.

It's simply effete and in generally poor taste unless you're a competing athlete. I find it a reasonable bet Europeans have a somewhat-different take on aesthetics, based on their cars, entertainment, and so much else. More love of elegance and shall we say, sleekness (if that is a word).
Are you trying to say that the average American female 18-50 is more attracted to the female body than the male?

Not sure how the use of the word "effete" is supposed to be taken here.
 
Old 02-03-2015, 03:14 PM
 
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Have you seen most American men? Fat, hairy pale, etc.

Besides, Speedos are damn uncomfortable. I swim laps in a jammer and wear trunks for casual. My boys need some breathing room.

Besides, who wants to be known as "That guy in the speedo"?
 
Old 02-03-2015, 03:21 PM
 
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Have you seen most American men? Fat, hairy pale, etc.

Besides, Speedos are damn uncomfortable. I swim laps in a jammer and wear trunks for casual. My boys need some breathing room.

Besides, who wants to be known as "That guy in the speedo"?
Well, they wouldnt be pale if they could wear speedos. Plus, im pretty sure theres a lot more freedom of movement in a speedo that there is with board shorts/culottes (which would help with exercising).
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