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Hello all; this is my first ever post here and I just want opinions If you find myself attractive. Im not asking so much do to anxiety or anything like that, more out of curiosity. I have had a few girlfriends and my personality I dinamite from what I have been told but one thing I am a tad insecure about is that I am on the heavier side (physically). Any and all feedback is much appreciated
You look fine. You have great hair. The biggest thing in the photo you linked to is your smile seems to be only halfway there. I am always attracted to a guy with a happy smile.
Youre welcome, Ruth. I know, how you always like to ask for pics
Thx, HC.
OP, you need to relax--easier when someone else is taking the pic--so you can have a nice smile, and not squint. Women love a warm smile. Yes, you're chubby, but pics don't portray the whole package. Chub can be attractive, if someone has a winning personality. Women find it cuddly.
Because you look awkward taking your selfie, you look like you lack self-confidence in that pic. Arrange a photo shoot with a friend, have them take a bunch of pics with you relaxed and smiling like you're hanging out with friends and having a good time. Then choose the best one. Your inner self-confidence will shine when you're relaxed and in a good mood. Professional photographers are really good at bringing that sort of thing out in people, btw.
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I always like natural pics of people, not selfies. Do you have any pics of you doing something fun, with friends (that you can fuzz out)? You look fine. But it looks like you took that pic in a bathroom.
I'd go somewhere, let a friend take a pic, and make it a fun place.
Thanks for all the replies so far. Ill try and dig around and find some that are more natural like some of you have been saying. I do kinda get how in my selfie the smile is kinda forced but that picture is just my fb profile picture. Not to toot my own horn but many people have told me that I am one of if not the funniest person they know, like, laughing so hard your diaphragm hurts kinda funny. On top of that im very easy to talk to apparently. So in regards to my smile and how I am around others it comes very naturally and not worried about that at all. The reason why I decided to post on here was not really because im insecure that much, more for the reason of just appearance specifically. I know Im not drop dead gorgeous and I know im not ugly either. More just wanted insight on how I look, like if or you are my age what would your impression be of me on first sight, before getting to know me; that sort of thing
Thanks for all the replies so far. Ill try and dig around and find some that are more natural like some of you have been saying. I do kinda get how in my selfie the smile is kinda forced but that picture is just my fb profile picture. Not to toot my own horn but many people have told me that I am one of if not the funniest person they know, like, laughing so hard your diaphragm hurts kinda funny. On top of that im very easy to talk to apparently. So in regards to my smile and how I am around others it comes very naturally and not worried about that at all. The reason why I decided to post on here was not really because im insecure that much, more for the reason of just appearance specifically. I know Im not drop dead gorgeous and I know im not ugly either. More just wanted insight on how I look, like if or you are my age what would your impression be of me on first sight, before getting to know me; that sort of thing
I'd say you look average, which isn't a bad thing. At your age, I probably wouldn't have been into a chubby guy, I mean at first glance, like you said. But your personality would have been a draw.
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Thx, HC.
Professional photographers are really good at bringing that sort of thing out in people, btw.