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Originally Posted by marmom
W......."well, you need to speak with so-and-so, let me transfer you..." They did this until we had gone full circle with various departments.
...Time for an attorney?......
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Mamom,
I do not know your total situation. I advise you to be very careful asking questions and forming conclusions on a public forum because the rules are different between the states. There is a lot of wrong information here.
If you know your home will sell quickly, a short sale is the best option. It can not be an arms length transaction.
A sale short does not postpone a foreclosure, and knowing houses are not selling. Being that New Mexico is a Judicial state, where a house can be foreclosed upon in as little as 6 months. It is very clear you could lose the home to foreclosure. It would be best to consider other options. Because a foreclosure would 100% ruin your financial future.
I cannot directly tell you not to pay you mortgage. although If you make on-time payments your lender will never agree to a short sale, or even a modification. Because you are not showing there is a hardship. Banks now days will not agree there is a hardship till the borrower is 60 to 90 days late.
One option could be doing a deed in lieu. An attempt is made for a modification and get denied. Then the home be listed for 90 days, and after that technically walking away for and clear.
Also noting New Mexico is a recourse state, which means that the lender can come after you if your house sold through a short sale for less than the amount owed. They can come after you with a deficiency judgment or 1099c. If you brought the home, you may be able to write that off, however if you refinanced your loan is no longer consitered purchase money and your liable to pay the difference between what was owed and what it sold for.
It is evident the bank is going to play games with you, judging what you have shared. My advice is not to give them any information and seek council.
Contact me if you have further questions...