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Middle-aged straight men tend to be dads too, settled in with family. Gay or straight, the settled life takes the "availability" edge off your looks. Attraction cues halt. Aesthetic fitness loses priority.
Also factor in that middle aged folks with family don't go out as much, so even if their attractive numbers were stronger they're not as visible outside the daytime working hours.