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Old 06-27-2023, 02:41 PM
 
Location: Louisiana to Houston to Denver to NOVA
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Well, if the shoe fits....

Lack of motivation, lack of effort, the gaming industry and the ever-popular blame game.
It doesn't fit. Lack of effort is an hilarious assumption to make amongst a population of hundreds of millions of people. This thread is a joke.
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Old 06-27-2023, 02:42 PM
 
Location: Idaho
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For me it's just too expensive to move. We've looked at job relocations and the raise wouldn't come near to covering the increased COL of the new area. I bought in 2008 and have refinanced twice, so my mortgage, tax and insurance payment is still under $1,200 per month for a 1800SF house on a quarter acre lot. Unless I move to a few areas in the SE USA I won't find a mortgage that low, even with a $2-3 hundred K down payment. I don't want to live in the SE, so we're staying put, and putting our cash towards upgrades and expansion to our existing home. Then we can travel to more places more often.
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Old 06-27-2023, 02:43 PM
 
Location: Louisiana to Houston to Denver to NOVA
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For me it's just too expensive to move. We've looked at job relocations and the raise wouldn't come near to covering the increased COL of the new area. I bought in 2008 and have refinanced twice, so my mortgage, tax and insurance payment is still under $1,200 per month for a 1800SF house on a quarter acre lot. Unless I move to a few areas in the SE USA I won't find a mortgage that low, even with a $2-3 hundred K down payment. I don't want to live in the SE, so we're staying put, and putting our cash towards upgrades and expansion to our existing home. Then we can travel to more places more often.
Nah, have you tried putting in some effort?
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Old 06-27-2023, 02:54 PM
 
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It doesn't fit. Lack of effort is an hilarious assumption to make amongst a population of hundreds of millions of people. This thread is a joke.
I used that as an example, not a one size fits all. However if you cannot see that as at least a common trait, those are some pretty awesome blinders you've been wearing.
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Old 06-27-2023, 02:55 PM
 
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Huh? So people moving around means they are not "lazy"?

Covid aside just what is the OP trying to get to? There are lots and lots of reason why people don't just pick up and move, and laziness is not one of them.
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Old 06-27-2023, 02:58 PM
 
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For me it's just too expensive to move. We've looked at job relocations and the raise wouldn't come near to covering the increased COL of the new area. I bought in 2008 and have refinanced twice, so my mortgage, tax and insurance payment is still under $1,200 per month for a 1800SF house on a quarter acre lot. Unless I move to a few areas in the SE USA I won't find a mortgage that low, even with a $2-3 hundred K down payment. I don't want to live in the SE, so we're staying put, and putting our cash towards upgrades and expansion to our existing home. Then we can travel to more places more often.
It truly doesn't make sense in your financial situation. My reference is toward the very sizable population who haven't bothered to explore other options and instead maintain the hamster-wheel existence, while whining about their current situation.
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Old 06-27-2023, 03:00 PM
 
Location: Beautiful and sanitary DC
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I'd read these before reading any more random, uninformed opinions about how other people are "lazy":
https://www.brookings.edu/articles/u...-census-shows/
https://www.jchs.harvard.edu/sites/d...frost_2020.pdf
https://www.vox.com/22939038/rents-r...bility-freedom
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs...13189X17753124

Important to note, for instance, that an older population moves less frequently, and that interstate moves haven't declined as much as local moves.
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Old 06-27-2023, 03:27 PM
 
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I could argue that when things aren't perfect, it takes more work to stay put and make things work, and that moving somewhere with greener grass is the easier way out.

I won't argue that, because it's a wild guess at generalizing and I don't have any info to support it. But the does the OP have info for his opinion? My guess seems just as plausible.

And yeah, peak Covid isn't the timeframe I'd use as a reference point.
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Old 06-27-2023, 03:43 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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Well, if the shoe fits....

Lack of motivation, lack of effort, the gaming industry and the ever-popular blame game.
I've relocated times in my life. That is plenty. Almost everyone I know where I currently live isn't from there.

Not relocating does not equal lazy even if a person is happy where they were born.
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Old 06-27-2023, 03:44 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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Nah, have you tried putting in some effort?
I almost spit out my drink reading that. Very well played!
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