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Old 02-14-2014, 03:26 AM
 
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Unfortunately I regret to say that I didn't party all that much in college. The number of parties I went to can be counted on one hand. I've seen a few drunk girls hook up with guys but I was never one of the guys they wanted to hook up with (even when they were drunk!). So I guess I'm just wondering is it too late for me to make up for it? I'm 26 and most of my high school and college classmates are married or in serious relationships. When they were in college they went to parties, had one night stands, and often saw their now fiance or wife make out with other girls and I'm jealous that I never got that chance. I've never seen a girl make out with another girl (in real life that is, I've seen it on the internet) and I've never had a one night stand or casual sex. Indeed I'm a virgin (in every sense of the word). So is it too late for me to make up for lost time and have those experiences? How do I make up for it exactly?

 
Old 02-14-2014, 03:47 AM
 
Location: North of Canada, but not the Arctic
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Probably belongs in Relationship section.
 
Old 02-14-2014, 02:28 PM
 
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You're right. I'm going to repost it.
 
Old 02-14-2014, 04:40 PM
 
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Unfortunately I regret to say that I didn't party all that much in college. The number of parties I went to can be counted on one hand. I've seen a few drunk girls hook up with guys but I was never one of the guys they wanted to hook up with (even when they were drunk!). So I guess I'm just wondering is it too late for me to make up for it? I'm 26 and most of my high school and college classmates are married or in serious relationships. When they were in college they went to parties, had one night stands, and often saw their now fiance or wife make out with other girls and I'm jealous that I never got that chance. I've never seen a girl make out with another girl (in real life that is, I've seen it on the internet) and I've never had a one night stand or casual sex. Indeed I'm a virgin (in every sense of the word). So is it too late for me to make up for lost time and have those experiences? How do I make up for it exactly?
It is never too late. Work on you diet and exercise routine. Modify your beautification routine. Get a better hair cut. The list goes on. It is not that complicated; it just takes work ethic.
 
Old 02-14-2014, 05:11 PM
 
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Unfortunately I regret to say that I didn't party all that much in college. The number of parties I went to can be counted on one hand. I've seen a few drunk girls hook up with guys but I was never one of the guys they wanted to hook up with (even when they were drunk!). So I guess I'm just wondering is it too late for me to make up for it? I'm 26 and most of my high school and college classmates are married or in serious relationships. When they were in college they went to parties, had one night stands, and often saw their now fiance or wife make out with other girls and I'm jealous that I never got that chance. I've never seen a girl make out with another girl (in real life that is, I've seen it on the internet) and I've never had a one night stand or casual sex. Indeed I'm a virgin (in every sense of the word). So is it too late for me to make up for lost time and have those experiences? How do I make up for it exactly?
Are you talking life style or experience?

If it's experience, take a summer trip to Europe. People are considered too old for the party scene there around 50 years old. In the USA, depending on the scene but sometimes it's 30. So if you are talking life style change, you better hit the gym and become materialistic to a point.
 
Old 02-14-2014, 07:31 PM
 
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It is never too late. Work on you diet and exercise routine. Modify your beautification routine. Get a better hair cut. The list goes on. It is not that complicated; it just takes work ethic.
Why do you think a change in appearance is necessary? OP didn't suggest he/she is unattractive.
 
Old 02-14-2014, 08:11 PM
 
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OP open this same topic in Relationships forum. Please go there if you want to continue this discussion.
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