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himain
yes before i have visit his gravesite and one day i went this woman who worked there told me thats where his remains are and im not talking to no one shes old tho so im thinking that she is use to this but i didnt mind that .... but then there are some people that said i shouldnt go to the gravesite because he is at rest there . but i dont go by that i go visit him anyway so thank u i do talk to him every other night once again thank you
himain
yes before i have visit his gravesite and one day i went this woman who worked there told me thats where his remains are and im not talking to no one shes old tho so im thinking that she is use to this but i didnt mind that .... but then there are some people that said i shouldnt go to the gravesite because he is at rest there . but i dont go by that i go visit him anyway so thank u i do talk to him every other night once again thank you
If it makes you feel better to go talk to him, then do it! You are doing it for yourself, not them. Maybe they would be nice and join you!
Hello world i lost my friend on March 23 2011 i have a hard time getting over it. i mean sometimes i find myself talking bout him to much. i hate talking about death but after the lost i talk about him constantly. the sad thing pervious 9 months ago i had a fromer class mate died as well and he said that he felt like he didnt say good bye her.. so now he is gone it hit me hard still my mind wonder and i hate that i really think of him like this. we never had sex because he repested me on a level, slept in the same bed, talk about life before he left. and thats the thing i may sound selfish but i felt as soon i had a friend, or soon i was comfortable with somebody god took him from me but after i was mad i apoloize and realized i was wrong. i have random questions like Can he Hear Me ?, do i suppose to visit his gravesite? Undertsanding that his remains are there to rest. how will i no he visit. im so confuse that i dont no what to believe
There are several stages in grieving and healing. Anger is one of them. Every part of the grieving process is normal and good.
You have to fully grieve and then there is a point you must move on.
Sorry for your loss......I visit the graves of loved one occasionally...and sometimes even talk to them there.....but I'm not at all religious, it just makes me feel good....
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