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Old 11-07-2019, 04:26 PM
 
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I miss her so much. She was my only family. I’m so sad and lonely.
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Old 11-07-2019, 06:35 PM
 
Location: Wisconsin
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I am so sorry. I also had a very difficult time after my mother died.

Have you considered joining a grief support group?

Good luck to you.
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Old 11-07-2019, 09:33 PM
 
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I am so sorry for you Foxyknoxy and you also Germaine2626
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Old 11-08-2019, 01:41 AM
 
Location: El paso,tx
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I lost my mom last year. I've lost 2 brothers and a father, but losing my mom was the worst. I miss her so much every day.
I kind of feel like i just need to outlive my husband and remaining brother, and will be happy to go. I want to be able to care for them, so can't go yet.
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Old 11-08-2019, 08:49 AM
 
Location: Not where I want to be
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I am SO SORRY, foxyknoxy. I found the 2nd year after each of my loved ones' death to be even harder. We, of course, have talked about that somewhere in here in the past. It's still true though, my shock was over, leaving just pain, sadness and loneliness in that 2nd year.

It will ease up a little as the years pass. Then your mind will be full of happy memories if you choose.

Hugs.......

Hugs for you too, germaine.
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Old 01-09-2020, 07:38 AM
 
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My mom also passed away two years ago.

She's an amazing person and losing her was really a catastrophe to me.

I tried to keep myself busy but I can't stop thinking of her.

It's just sad that even a simple dinner with her, or a small talk with her about my life, is not possible by now.
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Old 01-09-2020, 03:23 PM
 
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I miss her so much. She was my only family. I’m so sad and lonely.
i am so sorry for your loss.
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Old 01-09-2020, 06:06 PM
 
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I was lucky enough to have a wonderful mother. She died over 10 years ago and I still miss her everyday. It does get a little easier as time moves on but that hole will always be there.

No one loves you like your mother.

Hugs to everyone that is feeling the pain of this loss.

foxy - try to get out and do things. You know your mom would want you to be happy.
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Old 01-10-2020, 07:37 AM
 
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I miss her so much. She was my only family. I’m so sad and lonely.
My mother also died almost exactly two years ago.

As you have learned, there is no magic cure that will make you feel better.

The best advice I can give you is "remember the good times". They are a great source of satisfaction to me because there were many.
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Old 01-10-2020, 10:59 AM
 
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I was lucky enough to have a wonderful mother. She died over 10 years ago and I still miss her everyday. It does get a little easier as time moves on but that hole will always be there.

No one loves you like your mother.

Hugs to everyone that is feeling the pain of this loss.

foxy - try to get out and do things. You know your mom would want you to be happy.
So true that there is just a special love and bond with your mother.

Foxy, it will get better with time. If you are up to it, try to remember some happy times with your mother that make you smile. My mother died 5 years ago and I still miss her so much, but that loving bond will always be a part of us.
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