Houston vs Austin for dating (33 year old single mother) (how much, gardening)

[cBach]

Originally Posted by Chrisrock

I commend you...recently divorced and already looking for the love of your life, looking after twin girls, all in the middle of a major job and house move. Those are the biggest stress events you can have in life, and all happening at the same time for you.

As previously suggested, maybe a sugar daddy vacation is just what you need. Houston just lost backpage.com, so there are plenty of them out there looking to shower a nice Colombiana with money and gifts.

This is probably the truest statement.

If she is recently divorced and has twin girls, perhaps she needs to focus on them in the LA area instead of moving to Houston.

Also if she is just looking for a sugar daddy she probably should just stay in LA. Much more money there. Especially if she's as hot as she says.

[RJ312]

Originally Posted by ashbeeigh

Because it's literally what every guy wants. A girl who brunches, does yoga, is "well traveled with a passport" and who is educated. She already has two of those things.

Let's assess:

Am I attracted to....

-a female who brunches? No, brunch is a silly idea. Such a SWPL thing. Wake up, eat, move on.
-a female who does yoga? Not really. Yoga is ok, but I prefer other forms of exercise. Yoga is better than doing nothing.
-a female who is well traveled with a passport? Not in the slightest.
-a female who is educated? I'm neutral on this. A bachelor's degree at a public university is generally sufficient. Not necessary. I'd rather her be more feminine and more trained on home economics type thing. Knowing how to cook and sew is more valuable to me.

[ashbeeigh]

Originally Posted by cBach

Well someone filled me in on what the double meaning behind each one is:

* well traveled - apparently women that love to travel tend to "hook up" on their vacations as it is obligation free sex and so putting this means you are okay with casual sex

* yoga - putting this means your body is flexible, which is always a good thing. It also means you look after your figure but not excessively.

* brunches - this means you have "girlfriends" that you hang out with, that you are social and popular. It also means you fall in the range of "normal" so probably not crazy. I've noticed the crazies tend to say "tomboy" and this means they have turf wars with other females.

So in theory these three combinations will indeed get you the most matches.


I wish there were traits you could put in a men's profile that would get a lot of hits from women but it doesn't work that way.

Well, what guys seem to think get the swipes (or what I see) is very similar. Crossfit/run/bike, craft beer, live music and travelling is what i see most of.

Originally Posted by RJ312

Let's assess:

Am I attracted to....

-a female who brunches? No, brunch is a silly idea. Such a SWPL thing. Wake up, eat, move on.
-a female who does yoga? Not really. Yoga is ok, but I prefer other forms of exercise. Yoga is better than doing nothing.
-a female who is well traveled with a passport? Not in the slightest.
-a female who is educated? I'm neutral on this. A bachelor's degree at a public university is generally sufficient. Not necessary. I'd rather her be more feminine and more trained on home economics type thing. Knowing how to cook and sew is more valuable to me.

Congratulations. You're not most guys in Austin.

[3shipguy]

This thread is a fail without pics. Lol.

[A-Tex]

Originally Posted by RJ312

Let's assess:

Am I attracted to....

-a female who brunches? No, brunch is a silly idea. Such a SWPL thing. Wake up, eat, move on.
-a female who does yoga? Not really. Yoga is ok, but I prefer other forms of exercise. Yoga is better than doing nothing.
-a female who is well traveled with a passport? Not in the slightest.
-a female who is educated? I'm neutral on this. A bachelor's degree at a public university is generally sufficient. Not necessary. I'd rather her be more feminine and more trained on home economics type thing. Knowing how to cook and sew is more valuable to me.

You sound like lots of fun. Shocking that you're still single.

[Ghost Town]

Originally Posted by cBach

Are you?

I cannot consider a lady with kids from previous relationship.

[Lanative22]

Originally Posted by RJ312

Let's assess:

Am I attracted to....

-a female who brunches? No, brunch is a silly idea. Such a SWPL thing. Wake up, eat, move on.
-a female who does yoga? Not really. Yoga is ok, but I prefer other forms of exercise. Yoga is better than doing nothing.
-a female who is well traveled with a passport? Not in the slightest.
-a female who is educated? I'm neutral on this. A bachelor's degree at a public university is generally sufficient. Not necessary. I'd rather her be more feminine and more trained on home economics type thing. Knowing how to cook and sew is more valuable to me.

Sew? Lol..I forgot we live in the 1800’s

Don’t forget- a “feminine” woman knows how to churn butter and possesses child bearing hips

[Lanative22]

Originally Posted by cBach

Well someone filled me in on what the double meaning behind each one is:

* well traveled - apparently women that love to travel tend to "hook up" on their vacations as it is obligation free sex and so putting this means you are okay with casual sex

* yoga - putting this means your body is flexible, which is always a good thing. It also means you look after your figure but not excessively.

* brunches - this means you have "girlfriends" that you hang out with, that you are social and popular. It also means you fall in the range of "normal" so probably not crazy. I've noticed the crazies tend to say "tomboy" and this means they have turf wars with other females.

So in theory these three combinations will indeed get you the most matches.


I wish there were traits you could put in a men's profile that would get a lot of hits from women but it doesn't work that way.

I’ve never hooked up with anyone while traveling...and I’ve had opportunities.
My love for travel has more to do with my love for learning.

As far as yoga-after years of running and HIT workouts in my 20’s I realized intense exercise is bad for women’s hormones. So I switched to more gentle exercise.

Brunch- I just like to eat at restaurants and gossip with girlfriends. Who doesn’t?

There are lots of things men can put in their profile that will help. Here are some:


Being a home owner, having pets, being educated, being able to support a family, exercises, has hobbies.

Being able to support a family is the equivalent of having nice boobs

[Lanative22]

Originally Posted by lethalhipster9

Why on earth would someone want to marry a single mom who doesn't want to work?

You’re right. You’re entitled to marry a super hot chick, that while maintaining her figure, works full time making more than you, pops out your kids at the same time, while cooking, cleaning for you, and pleasing you sexually... good luck with that. You actually think you’re entitled to a woman who essentially provides more than you..it doesn’t even work that way in nature. Life’s not a porno. Get out of your moms basement and you’ll figure that out. Also being a mother IS working. I’m guessing despite your ignorance and naivety you didn’t raise yourself. Some men prefer their children be raised by their wives rather than a neglectful daycare. I’m also guessing you’ve never been pregnant and will NEVER know what it’s like to be pregnant. Bringing life into the world is no joke. It doesn’t happen by a miracle, your entire body has to work extra hard for nine months to do it. Your blood pressure goes up as well as your blood sugar and weight. You double the amount of blood you circulate. Thus You’re very tired for atleast six straight months. Good luck having a happy wife that has to work full time while growing your degenerate brats. If you expect your wife to give you children while working full time she either A. Will look disheveled all the time, and gain weight from stress or B. Will be so exhausted and resentful of you she will never wanna touch you.

[979Texan]

Is that chip on your shoulder staying in LA or will you bring it to Texas?

I don’t think wasting time martrying yourself on a message board will net you the special sort of dumbass you’re looking for.

Originally Posted by Lanative22

You’re right. You’re entitled to marry a super hot chick, that while maintaining her figure, works full time making more than you, pops out your kids at the same time, while cooking, cleaning for you, and pleasing you sexually... good luck with that. You actually think you’re entitled to a woman who essentially provides more than you..it doesn’t even work that way in nature. Life’s not a porno. Get out of your moms basement and you’ll figure that out. Also being a mother IS working. I’m guessing despite your ignorance and naivety you didn’t raise yourself. Some men prefer their children be raised by their wives rather than a neglectful daycare. I’m also guessing you’ve never been pregnant and will NEVER know what it’s like to be pregnant. Bringing life into the world is no joke. It doesn’t happen by a miracle, your entire body has to work extra hard for nine months to do it. Your blood pressure goes up as well as your blood sugar and weight. You double the amount of blood you circulate. Thus You’re very tired for atleast six straight months. Good luck having a happy wife that has to work full time while growing your degenerate brats.