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It's always hard on parents when their kids go into the military. My husband has been enlisted active duty for 27 years, spent the first 10 years in the Air Force and then went Army. Our son joined the Army last October. We weren't too happy he went Army and wanted to him to go AF but we are very supportive of his decision now. He has a new sense of confidence in himself that we hadn't seen before. I'm very proud of him and am very scared if he has to deploy but know if that happens we well support him because it is very important to remain positive.
If joining the AF is what you want to do, just do it. Don't worry about what your parents think because once you've signed on the dotted line I'm sure they will come around and will have no choice but to be supportive. The only thing I can suggest is to try and find someone you trust who is currently or retired AF and ask them questions and possibly take them with you to the recruiter. Recruiters have quotas to meet and sometime aren't looking out for your best interest. You might also seek out the military rep at the college you are attending and find out if they you are eligible for ROTC or some other program where you can finish college and then go in as an officer but the military will pay for your schooling.
I completely disagree! My husband did not join until he was 28, going on 29. He's been in 11 years now, and loves it. His plan is to get to SGM and say as long as they'll let him
Some people were just made for military life. They like the control and have the mindset for it. I didnt.
Some people were just made for military life. They like the control and have the mindset for it. I didnt.
Pythonis, I've had the pleasure of working with some very creative people in the military. Yes, the military "mindset" CAN be one of lockstep obedience. but the military DOES have it's fair share of innovators (and needs more!)
I think the Air Force is the most civilized, really good about taking care of their people. I was in the Navy and we tried hard, but the Navy pretty much has to come first. Being in the service is an excellent way to save up money, do some traveling, learn to appreciate civilian life, or make the service a career. I never regret serving, did 25 years, loved every minute of it. Be careful about what field you go into if you join. Don't pick something useless on the outside world. Good luck!
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