So I'm on day 90 of a re-fi with a lender who has been poor at communication but had been offering pretty good rates. I got an automated notification that something had changed and they were sending out new disclosures (but no details on what). Everything looked the same (loan amount, term, etc.) except that I noticed I was getting $1,000 less back (it's a cash-out refi).
When I looked at the details, I saw the lender credit (part of the rate lock) had reduced by $1,000.
I asked about it and they finally responded that it's a fee by Fannie Mae for re-fi's with a subordinate loan (I have a HELOC I had hoped to leave open). Sounded like BS to me since there's a separate "Subordination Fee" listed on the closing cost details sheet. I also questioned why they missed it three times when they sent me the original closing cost estimate, an updated estimate (where I changed the prepaid points), and a third when the original rate lock expired.
But I see from this page that there may in fact be a fee:
https://singlefamily.fanniemae.com/media/9391/display (Table 3, page 4)
So I'm pretty upset that we're 90 days in and still haven't closed, that communication has generally been poor, and that now they're trying to charge me an extra $1,000 beyond what was disclosed/agreed to.
They are telling me my only option is to pay the fee or to try and pay off the HELOC by rolling it into the re-fi. I don't mind paying it off, but I wanted to leave it open (it's got at least 20 years left) for later possible use since HELOCs are apparently harder to get right now?
Do I have any wiggle room here? I was going to propose that they take the unexpected fee out of their origination fee, but I don't know if that's possible or reasonable. I really don't want to start all over with this lender or another lender. I believe rates may be slightly better than what I locked at, but they told me previously they would charge me to re-lock (despite the original lock expiring due to their taking so long).