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Old 07-26-2010, 02:05 PM
 
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what do you think, If you basically starting dating somebody, he invite you to meet his family , so far Ok. But once there after a nice and brief lunch, he already had plans to go and play golf with his friends, left you in the house with parents, sisters, cousins and nieces that you dont know and he come back 5 hours later. Do you think he is selfish? This was a new town for me I thought he will invite me to show me the town not to disappeared with his friends I feel some dissapointed.
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Old 07-26-2010, 02:07 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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what do you think, If you basically starting dating somebody, he invite you to meet his family , so far Ok. But once there after a nice and brief lunch, he already had plans to go and play golf with his friends, left you in the house with parents, sisters, cousins and nieces that you dont know and he come back 5 hours later. Do you think he is selfish? This was a new town for me I thought he will invite me to show me the town not to disappeared with his friends I feel some dissapointed.
The man is a clod.

I'd hesitate to continue dating someone this clueless.
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Old 07-26-2010, 02:08 PM
 
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what do you think, If you basically starting dating somebody, he invite you to meet his family , so far Ok. But once there after a nice and brief lunch, he already had plans to go and play golf with his friends, left you in the house with parents, sisters, cousins and nieces that you dont know and he come back 5 hours later. Do you think he is selfish? This was a new town for me I thought he will invite me to show me the town not to disappeared with his friends I feel some dissapointed.
Oh no he didn't....did he? I don't know if selfish is the right word, but he certainly is an inconsiderate prig. And I'd tell him so in no uncertain terms. If he really doesn't understand, and doesn't apologize, then you need to throw him back and re-bait the hook.
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Old 07-26-2010, 02:10 PM
 
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What a clueless moron. Dump him, he's an idiot.
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Old 07-26-2010, 02:12 PM
 
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I read this and didn't think it sounded that bad. I thought maybe he should have invited you along for golfing. Oops, looks like I'm a man.
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Old 07-26-2010, 02:19 PM
 
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what do you think, If you basically starting dating somebody, he invite you to meet his family , so far Ok. But once there after a nice and brief lunch, he already had plans to go and play golf with his friends, left you in the house with parents, sisters, cousins and nieces that you dont know and he come back 5 hours later. Do you think he is selfish? This was a new town for me I thought he will invite me to show me the town not to disappeared with his friends I feel some dissapointed.
Sounds a bit rude to invite you to go somewhere, leave you there, and then mind his own business.
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Old 07-26-2010, 02:22 PM
 
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what do you think, If you basically starting dating somebody, he invite you to meet his family , so far Ok. But once there after a nice and brief lunch, he already had plans to go and play golf with his friends, left you in the house with parents, sisters, cousins and nieces that you dont know and he come back 5 hours later. Do you think he is selfish? This was a new town for me I thought he will invite me to show me the town not to disappeared with his friends I feel some dissapointed.

You should feel disappointed. It was very rude of him to leave you with a bunch of strangers. You must have felt very uncomfortable. Talk to him about it and let him know how you feel and that it is unacceptable of him to do this to you.
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Old 07-26-2010, 02:24 PM
 
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Pretty boneheaded move on his part if you ask me.
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Old 07-26-2010, 02:29 PM
 
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This guy is swell!!
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Old 07-26-2010, 02:31 PM
 
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I can't believe that you even stayed 5 hours waiting for him. I would have figured out a way to get myself back home.
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