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Old 06-16-2012, 06:03 PM
 
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Is that the hole that in my heart? My daddy running off and never caring. Is that the anger? How important is the dad? The father? Man I gotta a lot of question to think about? Is society a disaster cause dad left? And women were not made to lead? Especially a family? Please women no offense. Just really thinking here!

I cried during the movie. But daddy where ever u are, I forgive u!
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Old 06-16-2012, 06:21 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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A long time ago, I was listening to howard stern and he was saying 'thank God for dead beat dads, because without them there would be less porno stars and strippers,' or something along those lines. LOL. As harsh as that assessment is, I think it's accurate on some level....I have not seen the movie OP is talking about but IMO, men downplay the importance of fathers in boys and girls upbringing because it's yet another excuse for them to shirk their responsibilities.
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Old 06-16-2012, 06:26 PM
 
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A long time ago, I was listening to howard stern and he was saying 'thank God for dead beat dads, because without them there would be less porno stars and strippers,' or something along those lines. LOL. As harsh as that assessment is, I think it's accurate on some level....I have not seen the movie OP is talking about but IMO, men downplay the importance of fathers in boys and girls upbringing because it's yet another excuse for them to shirk their responsibilities.
I would recommend seeing it. It was very powerful
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Old 06-16-2012, 08:27 PM
 
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Women need their fathers!!! I have major father issues. He left when I was a baby and has rarely been around.
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Old 06-16-2012, 09:27 PM
 
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I have not seen the movie OP is talking about but IMO, men downplay the importance of fathers in boys and girls upbringing
A lot of women do this, too. It's a big part of the problem.
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Old 06-16-2012, 11:31 PM
 
Location: Tucson for awhile longer
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Man goes to church whole family goes.
Not the case in my family. My father was very religious and never missed church. My mother went, too, but always appeared less devout and as soon as my father passed away, she lost interest altogether. Of we three adult children, only one attends church (interestingly, he was the most rebellious against our dad when we were young) and even he goes to a different church than where Dad worshiped. I think our lack of faith was at least partially caused by the fact we were dragged to church and weren't supposed to question.

I have a lot of admiration for my father, he loved us and sacrificed a lot for his family, but I adamantly don't agree with many of his ideas and haven't carried on most of his ways. No disrespect intended; we're just different people with different ways of seeing things. Oh, and by the way, he was raised by a religious mother and a father who was a complete non-believer (supposedly due to terrible things he had witnessed in WWI). So your premise doesn't hold true in Dad's case, either.
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Old 06-17-2012, 10:16 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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A lot of women do this, too. It's a big part of the problem.
Sorry, but I notice they downplay it because they have no choice in making him participate, so they take on that role too.
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Old 06-17-2012, 11:50 AM
 
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Fathers are definitely important. Having a solid relationship with their dads is important for both girls and boys. I'm blessed I had a great dad who stuck around and guided me. If I am half as good a dad to my daughter as my dad was for me, I'll consider that a success.
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Old 06-17-2012, 12:24 PM
 
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Sorry, but I notice they downplay it because they have no choice in making him participate, so they take on that role too.
Sorry, but I notice they downplay it because "I don't need any man to raise my child!"

Sorry, but that's bull.
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Old 06-17-2012, 03:56 PM
 
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Not the case in my family. My father was very religious and never missed church. My mother went, too, but always appeared less devout and as soon as my father passed away, she lost interest altogether. Of we three adult children, only one attends church (interestingly, he was the most rebellious against our dad when we were young) and even he goes to a different church than where Dad worshiped. I think our lack of faith was at least partially caused by the fact we were dragged to church and weren't supposed to question.

I have a lot of admiration for my father, he loved us and sacrificed a lot for his family, but I adamantly don't agree with many of his ideas and haven't carried on most of his ways. No disrespect intended; we're just different people with different ways of seeing things. Oh, and by the way, he was raised by a religious mother and a father who was a complete non-believer (supposedly due to terrible things he had witnessed in WWI). So your premise doesn't hold true in Dad's case, either.
U just prove it true....... As soon as yr dad was gone the chaos began in your family. ....
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