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Old 12-21-2014, 03:16 PM
 
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I read some of your comments and I no longer feel AS BAD as I once did. Thank you guys.

I had this other friend, who is notoriously known to flake out, ignored me two months ago. I face booked her AND texted her but no reply. So she hasn't reached out to me since then until she needed something. I guess she needed my help to vote on something that she's promoting. She tagged me in the post twice, texted, and Facebook private messaged me. In my head I'm like, "so you do know how to get a hold of me?!" I feel used when she dang near hunts me down when she wants something but doesn't have the dignity to reply to me when I was trying to get a hold of her a couple of months back.

I feel bad in a sense that's it is immature that I'm totally ignoring her but another part of me feels like "justice is served" and "karma is a ...."

Ever think of actually placing a phone call? Amazing how actually communicating with someone can clear things up.
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Old 12-23-2014, 10:28 AM
 
Location: Leaving fabulous Las Vegas, Nevada
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I read some of your comments and I no longer feel AS BAD as I once did. Thank you guys.

I had this other friend, who is notoriously known to flake out, ignored me two months ago. I face booked her AND texted her but no reply. So she hasn't reached out to me since then until she needed something. I guess she needed my help to vote on something that she's promoting. She tagged me in the post twice, texted, and Facebook private messaged me. In my head I'm like, "so you do know how to get a hold of me?!" I feel used when she dang near hunts me down when she wants something but doesn't have the dignity to reply to me when I was trying to get a hold of her a couple of months back.

I feel bad in a sense that's it is immature that I'm totally ignoring her but another part of me feels like "justice is served" and "karma is a ...."
You should call her on that behavior.
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Old 12-23-2014, 10:45 AM
 
Location: Southwestern, USA, now.
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That they need a polite or kindness pill.
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Old 12-23-2014, 10:46 AM
 
Location: kansas city
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i think about it but saying it aloud does dound petty. But i totally know where your coming from
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Old 12-23-2014, 11:35 AM
 
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I'm an introvert so I'm use to it.
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Old 12-23-2014, 11:58 AM
 
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You should call her on that behavior.

You mean I should just tell her?
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Old 12-23-2014, 12:02 PM
 
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There is really only one situation when I care if somebody ignores me. If they ask me for advice and then only listen to the advice when somebody else tells them the same thing, it bugs the crap out of me. It's like they're telling me that my advice isn't any good unless somebody else tells them the same thing.

One of my friends has the habit of doing that. He'll ask me for advice, I'll tell him something, and then a week or so later, he'll tell me that his cousin gave him some good advice and then he'll tell me what advice his cousin gave him and it will be the exact same thing I told him when he asked.
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