How would you deal with a judgemental sister in law ? (husband, person)
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My sister in law saw two of my friends have go fund me pages and she thought to tell me "Well maybe a job would help " . My first reaction was I wish I could jump up and smack her face . But then I thought about how would she like it , if I put on her facebook page "well maybe you should not have run off with a man while married to another man " and yes she did do this . I just wonder how all her fb friends and co workers would react to that news . But no I will talk to my husband about this and see how he wants to handle it . I mean after all it is his sister and she really does need to learn her boundaries where I am concerned because these were and are my friends way before I knew her . You see these two friends that have go fund me pages cant get a job because they lost their job when they got sick with cancer , yes she demeans people with cancer , real classy huh ? She constantly pees me off when she runs her mouth like that . Her husband wont say a word to her cause he is scared of her because like I said she ran off once before and he thinks he is too overweight to get any other woman so he takes her crap .Im so mad right now I could spit nails .
Take a deep breath and calm down. Why do you care what a philanderer thinks? I'll bet you really don't. Sometimes it's just the shock of hearing the words come out of somebody's mouth. I hate being ambushed by people like that but they only get to do it once.
Now that you know what she is, you can put her on Ignore.
I feel like there's something missing here. I'm guessing that you shared your friends' GoFundMe pages on your Facebook wall, and she commented "well maybe a job would help" and you're mad because your friends will see that comment about their fundraising efforts? If that is the case, I would delete her comment, and block her from seeing your future posts.
If these are the thoughts running through your head, you're not much better than her.
Just chalk it up to her being a judgmental ***** and don't have any contact with her. But to air your drama on Facebook or want to resort to physical violence? Not very classy.
I would ignore her comments & not attach so much importance to her. You can't change her mean behavior. All you can do is be formal around her & don't get too personal. It was not fair for her to judge your friends like that but you are not being less mean either by judging her for her past behavior & her relationship with her husband. That's strictly between them. You might be very polite to her on the surface but your body language will show what you really think about her so maybe her rudeness stems from knowing you don't really like her.
Don't waste your energy on her. The family drama is not worth it. Put her on ignore. HER words are a reflection of herself!
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