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Every time I talk to this girl (we know each other from before, we were schoolmates, but now we are co-workers) I feel like she is kinda "judging" or "eveluating" me or something.
I can't put my finger on what itis. She is kind and smiling when we are talking, but When I talk I always feel a little uncomftarble, because I feel like she is looking at me and thingking about something. It is weird and I don't know how to explain. I am good in makeup and I did her makeup once and she said that she want me to teach her how I do it so I don't know if she is looking at my makeup and trying to memorize it or what??
I have this feeling with other people to sometimes, when I almost am affraid to talk or I think twice about everything I say and do, because I feel like I am being evalueted.
It is so weird, because usualy I am very confidente and not affraid of speaking even in public, but this is happening to me lately and only with some people (girls usualy). Is this girls trying to compare ourselves to other girls or what?
Do you ever have this feeling? Do you think it is just in me or is she thinking stuff about me. It's annyoing not knowing if she is thinking positive or negative things.
That is such dumb question, I know, because how can you know what she is thinking, when you don't know me or her. But still... Do you ever feel this way?
People think, people evaluate their peers, people observe other people, people compare themselves with others...
Why do you care what she thinks about you. Is she your boss? Are you into her?
If not - just relax. You are most likely feeling things that don't exist. People maybe are looking at you, but not really "seeing" you or thinking about you. Or maybe they just briefly glance at your dress, or hairdo, or make-up, without actually thinking anything about it.
Every time I talk to this girl (we know each other from before, we were schoolmates, but now we are co-workers) I feel like she is kinda "judging" or "eveluating" me or something.
Then that's HER problem. There's nothing wrong with you. Don't try to do back flips to impress her.
You *are* being evaluated. We evalute people and what they say/do all the time. That doesn't mean a someone else's internal evaluation of you is bad. The important point is that you don't know what they're thinking, so you shouldn't worry about it.
When I talk I always feel a little uncomftarble, because I feel like she is looking at me and thingking about something.
I am perplexed. How can you think of nothing when you are listening to someone? Actually, how can you think of nothing at any time unless you are unconscious?
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