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OP it seems like you confronted your friend and she didn't like it one bit. Then she literally moved on.
My advice: just let it go. It's been years now and you aren't friends anymore. Sometimes that happens.
My other advice: don't confront your friends and just accept them for who they are. Do you really care if she messed around with a guy? I've had many friends make choices I would never make, and I just accept them as they are...not what I think they should be.
You need to move on with your life. She has moved on with hers and she doesn't want you in it for whatever reason. That's her prerogative. Just because you never saw it coming doesn't mean there weren't signs. You may have chosen to ignore them. It's been 5 years. It's really time to move on. Do not contact her!
You don't think it's harassment, as one other poster suggested? That's what I'm worried about. Thank you for your response.
How is it harassment to say "hey, was thinking about you. Hope you're well. I'd love to talk sometime if you're up for it"?
Again, the key is, if she's not interested, you leave it at that.
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