Men: Would you care if the girl you was hooking up with, messes with your bf? (appropriate, brother)

[cheryjohns]

Originally Posted by FullArmor

I feel notably less intelligent having read the original post in this thread. We are "deff" doomed if society continues on this downward spiral...

Look at it as a bad reality show - it helps you get through it better.

[Inkpoe]

I think I got the gist of the OP. I think...

Why are you asking: What does it matter to him? The dude flat out told you that he doesn't like you. Who cares what he thinks?

But yes, do dump both guys and move on. It's going to be messy.

[BrassTacksGal]

You and your friends sound like a hot mess. Grow up and get a clue.

[Harpaint]

Nothing you have written in either post shows self-respect.

[jamary1]

Are we talking about "sexing" or "sexting" here? Not that it really makes any difference in this case......the whole thing's a hot mess.

[Catgirl64]

The fact that he doesn't "like" you doesn't mean he doesn't regard you as, in a sense, his property, although I have to wonder why, if he's upset with you, he isn't also upset with the friend.

The more important question in my mind is this: why would you continue to sleep with someone who holds you in such low regard? This guy has no respect for you, his friend has no respect for you, and from what I can tell, you could use a serious infusion of respect for yourself.


***Note to all who wondered: "sexing" is a pretty common slang term for a word that could get me an infraction if I spell it out here.

[Zen88]

Originally Posted by fullarmor

i feel notably less intelligent having read the original post in this thread. We are "deff" doomed if society continues on this downward spiral...

lol!!!

[hunterseat]

Yes, I sexed a couple of cats at work today. lol

you hussy!

OP... who cares? Is he just a booty-call or what? Move along. Lots more where he came from, right?

[dblackga]

Oh, honey . . .

This post is so wrong, on so many levels . . .

Haven't you figured out that, when it comes to sex, what men SAY and what men DO are two very different things? (Heck, it's true for a lot of woman, too, come to think of it.)

Do you have an ounce of self-respect, that you are having sex with a man who is only using you for your body and has said clearly that he doesn't want a relationship with you, and yet gets twisted when you decide to have sex with one of his friends? He has shown you what kind of man he is -- one that supposedly "loves" his baby-mama and kid, but still wants to use your body to jack off.

Please get a clue -- this is never going to end well.

[Fifty Seven]

Originally Posted by nurider2002

Wow, more than a tad judgmental! What men say and what they feel often don't jive.

Of course. If you want to be treated like a lady, act like a lady, and "sexing a bloke and his best mate" isn't acting like a lady.