Which person would bother you more-- someone of few words, or someone who says something you hate? (introverted, conversation)

[nc17]

Let's say you work across from one of two different people:
One is quiet or tight-lipped, and keeps to him/herself. Other than responding to minor stuff like greetings and requests, the person is useless for conversation.
The other person doesn't bite their tongue, and spends every day discussing matters (political or work-related or anything really) that you deeply disagree with. Doesn't have to be belligerent, but talkative. Which person would drive you up the wall first?

For the sake of argument, let's say that you can't report them to HR, or ask to be reassigned. You're stuck in that office with the other person no matter what.

[BirdieBelle]

Of course the one with verbal diarrhea would bother me more, since I'm there to work, not be victimized by someone with poor impulse control.

[nc17]

Sure, work isn't social hour. But day after day of deafening silence isn't a big deal?

Like i said, the talkative person isn't necessarily rude or loud, but they're just opening their mouth and saying things that disagree with you.

[silibran]

Neither person is socially adept, and both of them would be difficult in their own ways. But I could get used to the quiet person once I figured out he or she was highly introverted, and I would figure out not to take the poor social ability personally.

I might find ways to non verbally communicate my acceptance of him or her, and might try to make a friend, even if were to be hard.

The non stop talker would drive me nuts. And I don't think I would ever be happy working with someone like that.

[sas318]

Obviously the one who keeps talking about stuff you disagree with! Silence is so much better than listening to things I can't stand.

[Calvert Hall '62]

Many people treasure silent introverts, especially in a work setting. I did. But the other one, no way.

[zentropa]

What's wrong with a quiet work environment? Listen to music if you hate silence.

The opinionated co-worker you describe is toxic to the workplace.

[hertfordshire]

Originally Posted by zentropa

The opinionated co-worker you describe is toxic to the workplace.

This.

I have one of these in my office. Her opinions aren't necessarily political in nature, but she's extremely opinionated, and frequently very negative. I feel like a black cloud follows her all around the office.

I'll take the silent type any day.

[Mr_Geek]

What's wrong with being quiet? Unless you need to talk to get the job done and this person isn't communicating then it isn't a problem.

[stan4]

The quiet one is more better.