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Old 11-25-2019, 10:58 AM
 
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Interesting.
Next time you see him talk to him and find out what he thinks. It may lead to finding a reason for these events.
You may not realize it but you might have sone unusual "psychic" abilities and can see into other dimensions. where this man is living a simultanous life to yours, and could be you.
Haha, I wish I looked like him though!
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Old 11-25-2019, 11:33 AM
 
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No, I highly doubt it. For the most part of it they are all spread out. It's not like all these incidents happened in the past 6 months. It's been the past 14 years.

I mean what kind of stalker stalks you for 14 years and does nothing? If he were a stalker I am pretty sure he would have done something by now.

Also, sometimes he arrives to places where I already am at, and sometimes he was the one to arrive first and I second. So it wold mean that I was stalking him too....which I am not.
How do you explain him appearing 300 miles away?
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Old 11-25-2019, 06:20 PM
 
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Yet, the OP moved, for a time, 300 miles away and still ran into this man. How do you explain that?
I missed that part. BUT if they both moved to the same city at different times, they would eventually end up running in the same circles. Maybe that's simply another thing they share in common, which is a willingness to move or travel. I'm just thinking logically.
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Old 11-25-2019, 06:21 PM
 
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I missed that part. BUT if they both moved to the same city at different times, they would eventually end up running in the same circles. Maybe that's simply another thing they share in common, which is a willingness to move or travel. I'm just thinking logically.
But then she moved AGAIN and there he is AGAIN.
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Old 11-25-2019, 06:24 PM
 
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But then she moved AGAIN and there he is AGAIN.
I know. But it's still just a handful of times over 14 years. This kind of thing probably happens more often than we realize. The only reason she even noticed him was because he was "strikingly" handsome or however she described him. There could have been other people doing the same thing, but she just didn't notice them for that reason.

Maybe the guy travels as part of his job.
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Old 11-25-2019, 06:28 PM
 
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I know. But it's still just a handful of times over 14 years. This kind of thing probably happens more often than we realize. The only reason she even noticed him was because he was "strikingly" handsome or however she described him. There could have been other people doing the same thing, but she just didn't notice them for that reason.

Maybe the guy travels as part of his job.
Just no. She moved away to college and he was there and then moved again and there he is again.
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Old 11-25-2019, 06:28 PM
 
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My question would be this: Is the college town located on a route between two large cities? You only saw him there "one time" right?
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Old 11-25-2019, 06:31 PM
 
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My question would be this: Is the college town located on a route between two large cities? You only saw him there "one time" right?
Oh come on! Everytime she moves, he is there. 300 miles away for school. He's there. 300 miles back. HE's there. Moves two more times. He's always there.
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Old 11-25-2019, 06:35 PM
 
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Oh come on! Everytime she moves, he is there. 300 miles away for school. He's there. 300 miles back. HE's there. Moves two more times. He's always there.
I know. But she mentioned different gyms. I know people who go back and forth between memberships at various gyms, for whatever reason. That's the part that I thought was kind of normal.
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Old 11-25-2019, 06:48 PM
 
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I thought the OP was a guy?

OP, you gotta say something to the guy the next time you bump into him. Like others, I think it's serendipitous, maybe you guys are supposed to cross paths and actually meet. Do let us know.

Personally, the strangest meet was when I bumped into a lady who just happens to know a guy I knew growing up. Out in the countryside in Japan, islands away from Tokyo. I thought that was odd.
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