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Old 03-27-2022, 03:27 PM
 
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I generally do not like to receive gifts.

But I did wonder what I would like

So I decided that I need a mani-pedi and it would be great if someone came to pick me up and took me to my favorite salon and paid for the whole thing!
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Old 03-27-2022, 04:21 PM
 
Location: on the wind
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A gift I might appreciate at any given time will vary. IMO, a well received gift demonstrates that the giver has been paying attention to what's going on in the recipient's life at the time. For example: if the recipient has been decorating a house they just moved in to, maybe a gift card to a home improvement store. A gardener might love a new shrub. Someone who just got a new dog might appreciate new toys or gourmet treats. I try to give thoughtful gifts and actually enjoy finding just the right thing to surprise someone with. Every time I get a hint during a conversation I mentally file it away until I can get home and scribble a note for the future. If I see something in a catalog perfect for someone the page gets torn out and filed away for an upcoming birthday, Christmas, or (if I can't wait) no occasion at all. If we happen to be window shopping together maybe a gift certificate to a store they liked. I don't shower everyone with gifts and most of them are pretty modest. The few are chosen carefully because I value the person and show interest in their life.
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Old 03-27-2022, 04:42 PM
 
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Sometimes my ex-husband's family would put lottery tickets in birthday and Christmas cards. I would like that again, only with a ticket that actually won a jackpot.
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Old 03-27-2022, 05:33 PM
 
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Sometimes my ex-husband's family would put lottery tickets in birthday and Christmas cards. I would like that again, only with a ticket that actually won a jackpot.
omg - that would be awesome!!
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Old 03-28-2022, 12:51 PM
 
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Satellite TV.
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Old 03-28-2022, 12:57 PM
 
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A friend of mine recently paid for a massage and it was awesome.
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Old 03-28-2022, 05:08 PM
 
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A 45-foot catamaran. Might as well go big, right?
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Old 03-28-2022, 05:52 PM
 
Location: Bloomington IN
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A new office chair that is more attractive than what I have.
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Old 03-28-2022, 06:11 PM
 
Location: Alexandria, VA
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A gift of their friendship, offer to help if I need something, a plate of a home-cooked meal that they had made, and offer to treat me to a lunch or dinner.
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Old 03-28-2022, 06:19 PM
 
Location: Sandy Eggo's North County
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I generally do not like to receive gifts.

But I did wonder what I would like

So I decided that I need a mani-pedi and it would be great if someone came to pick me up and took me to my favorite salon and paid for the whole thing!
Where are you located? This could be do-able.

Gift for me? Good health.
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