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Old 01-11-2019, 03:01 PM
 
Location: The place where the road & the sky collide
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That's very chivalrous of you, but for most transgender women it is highly unlikely you would know their birth gender just by looking at them. Your wife has undoubtedly been in the ladies room with transgender women before, and neither you nor she realized it. So I question how valuable your "protection" really is, but you also are entitled to your opinions--keep on guarding that bathroom if you must.
So true. The 1st time that I was in a bathroom with a transgender woman I was about 19 and about 20 minutes later I realized that she was born a he.

I don't care if they're in a bathroom. We all have to go. They aren't looking for trouble, they just want to relieve themselves. I don't want to see a heterosexual man in the ladies room, though.
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Old 01-12-2019, 07:12 AM
 
Location: The City of Medicine
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https://www.reddit.com/r/raleigh/com...V6&sh=f841c8c5

The Transwoman in question did speak out on Reddit.
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Old 01-13-2019, 03:05 PM
 
Location: Raleigh NC
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so in the Reddit, she "confirms" the prior sexual assault she endured.

Does it matter if that person was a hetero male or a homosexual male? Did that male encounter this victim as a male or a female?

how would the 2 women at Milk Bar have known she was transgender, following the experience of arbyunc ... who said the chances of knowing the original physical orientation of her would be unlikely?

and I repeat again, the most important thing is that it is sad that she was assaulted in any way.
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Old 01-13-2019, 08:16 PM
 
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Probably an intolerant liberal
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Old 01-17-2019, 08:41 PM
 
Location: Durham, NC
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You're welcome to your own opinions of course. If you want a random man in with your woman, alone in a room then go for it.



That will not be happening in my case. No man will enter the restroom that my wife is in until she comes back out. That's the same rule as if it were any other room where the door was closed. If a strange man tries to get into a room with my wife, regardless of whether the room is a hotel room, a closet, a bathroom, or any other kind of room where I can't make sure she's safe, he will not be getting in.


If you don't like that I don't know what to tell ya...

I can't tell if this is an earnest attempt at being chivalrous or if you're one of those weirdos who don't want their wife ever having friends or a social life, or making decisions for herself.
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