hoping my life here in california will bring me some joy (San Diego: real estate, to rent)

[lifeisallitis]

i moved here a month ago and living in at a friends place
in newport beach ,looking to buy a house in orange or Malibu or Beverly hills.need some help i came from a small
town and i am am okay looking and and honest,financially lets say i have no worries.am i wrong or is the most important thing here is what you drive and your house and how many things you have,when i talked to women some basically ask some really weird question , like what kind of car you have and do you own a house etc,i try to act like i have not much and then it turns them right off,trying to find someone interested in me ,not what i have. do you think its a good idea to rent for a while instead of buying a home, and if i buy, were a good place that has decent people
i guess i was hoping for people to meet that like you for who you are and not what you have,besides my few friends who are kind.the last thing i want is to get a lady
who is not decent and kind sorry if my demeanor was
harsh but i had no luck with most of the women i met in orange and some other locations while here

[Vascodagama]

Originally Posted by lifeisallitis

i moved here a month ago and living in at a friends place
in newport beach ,looking to buy a house in orange or Malibu or Beverly hills.need some help i came from a small
town and i am am okay looking and and honest,financially lets say i have no worries.am i wrong or is the most important thing here is what you drive and your house and how many things you have,when i talked to women some basically ask some really weird question , like what kind of car you have and do you own a house etc,i try to act like i have not much and then it turns them right off,trying to find someone interested in me ,not what i have. do you think its a good idea to rent for a while instead of buying a home, and if i buy, were a good place that has decent people
i guess i was hoping for people to meet that like you for who you are and not what you have,besides my few friends who are kind.the last thing i want is to get a lady
who is not decent and kind sorry if my demeanor was
harsh but i had no luck with most of the women i met in orange and some other locations while here

Rent while prices drop
Newport is a materalistic place so you get what you pay for

[SoCalCroozer]

You are complaining how superficial women are yet you insist on looking for real estate in Orange County, Malibu, and Beverly Hills? Ummmmm yeah ok! Dude if you want to meet down to earth women who don't care about the size of your wallet live in a normal area of California and not some bubble. Although many areas of California are filled with superficial, money hungry women. OC isn't that bad but it's not the best place to be single. I think San Diego is a much better choice.

[nmnita]

for some reason I am not buying the posters story. I think he is just having a really fun time on the net and anxious to see what kind of responses he gets..

Nita

[CAVA1990]

Originally Posted by nmnita

for some reason I am not buying the posters story. I think he is just having a really fun time on the net and anxious to see what kind of responses he gets..

Nita

^^What she said.

[allenk893]

Originally Posted by nmnita

for some reason I am not buying the posters story. I think he is just having a really fun time on the net and anxious to see what kind of responses he gets..

Nita

Agreed. Something's not right when you have enough money to buy a house in Malibu or Beverly Hills but yet cannot put together a simple English sentence. I smell a rat.