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My theory from reading all of your posts is this. You really need to be careful, and try your best to get along with your wife and her family because international custody is difficult. Being that you're in Australia guess who's going to have favor. You really need to try harder not to let small stuff get to you because it's clear to me you love your son, and I'd hate for you to lose him. I can guarantee you if it comes down to it your wife will choose her family over you.
My theory from reading all of your posts is this. You really need to be careful, and try your best to get along with your wife and her family because international custody is difficult. Being that you're in Australia guess who's going to have favor. You really need to try harder not to let small stuff get to you because it's clear to me you love your son, and I'd hate for you to lose him. I can guarantee you if it comes down to it your wife will choose her family over you.
It's a moot point, but I doubt the OP is in Australia (although I do remember him saying that in another thread). He says he works all day... but nearly all his posts are made in the middle of our night! So, if he is in Australia, I'd say he needs to get a bit more sleep.
It's a moot point, but I doubt the OP is in Australia (although I do remember him saying that in another thread). He says he works all day... but nearly all his posts are made in the middle of our night! So, if he is in Australia, I'd say he needs to get a bit more sleep.
He's also in London and Amsterdam he says. Interesting that the times he posts most often are about the time he would be home from work already. When he could be playing with his baby.
And OP I seem to recall you saying that not only do you not need counseling, your therapist agrees.
on the weekend I wake up at 4 am and play with my son until 8am, allowing my wife to get sleep. I work many hours during the week so i dont get to be alone with him due to work. Over the weekend we are together.
That was not my question. My question was this...Do you ever take care of your son, just the two of you, while your wife is not in the house? I'm talking about weekends here. Is your wife always required to be with you, in the house, while you're "taking care" of your son?
That was not my question. My question was this...Do you ever take care of your son, just the two of you, while your wife is not in the house? I'm talking about weekends here. Is your wife always required to be with you, in the house, while you're "taking care" of your son?
Apparently not? Well Houston, I think we've discovered the problem. You want to be respected as a father, looked at as an adult, and yet you're not even capable of taking care of your son on your own? You want to spend time with your son, but you have to have your wife there to "save" you?....too keep you from getting too overwhelmed?....to possibly get the baby from you if he becomes too much for you to handle?...Do you change diapers?.....know how to fix bottles or foods?
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