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Originally Posted by omigawd
Well, according to many posters on this forum, his mother should do nothing. Let him fend for himself. It will make him stronger. Kids are kids. So what if they're calling him names? He'll get over it and you can't stop people from talking. Oh, and the same kids threatened his mother? Big deal. She'll live. They didn't do anything to her.
Now, for my opinion. If these kids are harassing your nephew and have threatened his mother in front of a teacher, I wouldn't be "writing letters". I would be at the principals office personally delivering a letter with a "cc" to the Superintendant of Schools. The letter would outline every single instance, including the threats by the kids against the mom.
If nothing is done immediately, I would take it further. There is no reason a child should be forced to go to school and be harassed day in and day out.
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I totally agree with this. I have been personally dealing with this bullying situation for a good part of my son's 4th grade year. It is exhausting. I learned early on that everyone, and I mean everyone, in the school system is there to watch out for themselves and not necessarily a child who is being bullied. I have documented EACH AND EVERY incident, have written letters, emails, confronted the principal, pulled in the superintendent. You would think eventually this bully who has been given in-school-suspension for a good majority of the year would be expelled -- BUT NO!!
Yesterday, my son comes home and tells me this same kid once again is disrupting music class with yelling out bad language, telling kids to "shut the F*** up when they ask him to be quiet because they can't hear the music teachers instructions. My son also tells him to be quiet and he says, " Yeah, you shut up too, I've beat you up once before and I'll do it again". The music teacher gives the kid a re-focus.
I've decided that since the principal doesn't have what it takes to deal with this kid I will be in her face EACH and EVERY time another incident occurs. If anything ever were to happen with this bully's threats the school will be sorry they did not do enough to protect my child.
To the OP you ARE your nephew's advocate and don't let anyone make you second-guess yourself. Kids need adults to stand up and protect them when they can't do it for themselves!