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My husband and I had a great relationship or so I thought. His kids and I seemed to get along very well, I made it as comfortable for them as much as I could. Then his oldest son who didn't like being told by his mother what to do and not do moved in. His father had no bounderies for him as he wanted to be his best friend. This kid is no longer a child he is a 23 year old man, who still calls his father "daddy". He would call his father and say I was being mean to him, and at one point I had no idea why the kid was crying until my now ex husband came home yelling at me for being mean to his son. Whenever my husband and I fought he would allow his two sons to be part of the argument. My husband would stop talking to me, one time it was for 3 months. I tried to talk to him during that time but he would just be on the attack. The last straw for me was when his 23 year old son intorduced him to a 30 year oldHwoman and proclaimed she was way better then me. I left. When I left my husband made no attempts to get in touch with me, and neither did I with him. His son told him he was better off without me as well as he said to his father if he brought me back to the house there would be problems between them. So my husband filed for divorce. Two months prior to the divorce I got in touch with him, and we discussed just surface stuff. He said he didn't want to argue with me about his kids, but he wanted to date me. He said he still had feelings for me, but that I walked out and ended the marriage. I said to him how I felt he had shoved me out the door. At one point he had said what would we need to do to get back together, and I said marriage counceling and that I would not move back. Then two weeks later he said he thougth about it and decided he didn't need counceling, and that it was over. Again he said it was just to pick on his kids and get him to hate them, which wasn't the caseHSo he divorced me. While we were at court for the divorce he wanted to sit next to me and hold hands. It was and still is very confussing. I just want to know if this was a sign of him being confussed and will he ever wake up and come knocking on my door. Right now that's what I want but who knows down the road. We are not talking once again.
The guy sounds like a loser. Good riddance. I think you can do better but you need to think more highly of yourself and not put up with sh*t. It also sounds like you didn't know this guy very long before marrying him, but I could be reading inhto things.
While we were at court for the divorce he wanted to sit next to me and hold hands. It was and still is very confussing. I just want to know if this was a sign of him being confussed and will he ever wake up and come knocking on my door. Right now that's what I want but who knows down the road. We are not talking once again.
If he's easily "confused" like this, consider it a favor. And if he shows up @ your door... don't open it. Because that's just inviting trouble back in your life.
Why on earth would you want to live with a man like this?
I hope this is a joke.
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