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It's no secret that sometimes parents and children don't see eye to eye on situations, I'm no different. Apparently my parents do not approve of me becoming an EMT while in college, even though I haven't been able to find a job to pay for some of my own expenses ( this is something really important to me, as I moved out my parents house yet they still lend me money to pay for my own expenses (such as food and other accommodations). As of this time it's really impossible for me to find any sort of job (even minimum wage, which always tell me they aren't hiring). It's tough because my parents have an issue with the expenses for groceries and text books ( I even resorted to having to bring my clothes back home to my family house to wash them to save money).
My Dad told me he didn't want me to work asan EMT because it's dangerous work and he doesn't want me in harm's way. I understand where he's coming from, but even after internships, volunteering, and many other career related activities I haven't been able to put myself in a position where I can at least depend on myself. I volunteer part time to gain experience, and it sucks sometimes, especially when you have people yell at you (I come home sore after work) but I like that I'm doing positive things in the community instead of other things.
I'm getting my associate's at a community college (planning on getting my Bachelor's in Liberal Arts), because I'm not too sure what I should study. So my parents just tell me to get my degree in Liberal Arts so I'm just going to do what they say there because I'm not a big fan of college
Sorry if I seemed like I was ranting but I feel like my parents are giving me more problems than supporting me. I love them and everything, but it's starting to get to the point where I just can't agree with them on anything anymore.
I have a couple friends that are EMT's. Between people swinging at you, addicts hopped up and trying to kill you, people bleeding all over you, needles and other sharp objects around you, not to mention the normal lifesaving requirements (burning cars, CPR, working in traffic, etc), it's a fairly tough job. Better in some places than others of course, but overall...it's not a job I'd want to do, yet i'm thankful for those who do.
I didn't realize that being an EMT was dangerous either. Is it? If so, I can definitely understand your dad's concerns. Will you still be able to continue your studies towards your bachelor's if you become an EMT? I know the hours are long. If you'll still need your parent's financial support while you train to become an EMT or even after you get the job, I think you have to listen to them. If not, then it's your decision to make. I can't imagine them being mad for long since you'll have a good job that allows you to be independent.
It's no secret that sometimes parents and children don't see eye to eye on situations, I'm no different. Apparently my parents do not approve of me becoming an EMT while in college, even though I haven't been able to find a job to pay for some of my own expenses ( this is something really important to me, as I moved out my parents house yet they still lend me money to pay for my own expenses (such as food and other accommodations). As of this time it's really impossible for me to find any sort of job (even minimum wage, which always tell me they aren't hiring). It's tough because my parents have an issue with the expenses for groceries and text books ( I even resorted to having to bring my clothes back home to my family house to wash them to save money).
My Dad told me he didn't want me to work asan EMT because it's dangerous work and he doesn't want me in harm's way. I understand where he's coming from, but even after internships, volunteering, and many other career related activities I haven't been able to put myself in a position where I can at least depend on myself. I volunteer part time to gain experience, and it sucks sometimes, especially when you have people yell at you (I come home sore after work) but I like that I'm doing positive things in the community instead of other things.
I'm getting my associate's at a community college (planning on getting my Bachelor's in Liberal Arts), because I'm not too sure what I should study. So my parents just tell me to get my degree in Liberal Arts so I'm just going to do what they say there because I'm not a big fan of college
Sorry if I seemed like I was ranting but I feel like my parents are giving me more problems than supporting me. I love them and everything, but it's starting to get to the point where I just can't agree with them on anything anymore.
So what "job" are you looking for now? Do you mean a basic job just so that you can pay your own bills? Also, why in the hell would you get a liberal arts degree?!?! Not bashing those with LA degrees, but that not the degree to get if you are just looking for a job.
I would recommend that you try for some sort of business degree if you really dont care or dont know what you want to study. Remember this, EVERYTHING is a business. If it doesn't make money, it doesn't exist. At least with a business degree you will be able to apply what you learn to almost any job. UNLESS you decide you really do want to pursue being an EMT, in which case you should go into the medical field of sorts.
Lastly, like Trimac said, how is an EMT dangerous? Are you looking to do it over seas or something? If your parents are paying the bills, you need meet their wishes, but becoming a paramedic should be something they are proud of.
I have a couple friends that are EMT's. Between people swinging at you, addicts hopped up and trying to kill you, people bleeding all over you, needles and other sharp objects around you, not to mention the normal lifesaving requirements (burning cars, CPR, working in traffic, etc), it's a fairly tough job. Better in some places than others of course, but overall...it's not a job I'd want to do, yet i'm thankful for those who do.
Well, that isn't THAT dangerous. Hes not applying to be a firefighter or police officer, or going to the army. I mean really, there are 1,000's of other jobs that are way more dangerous. Besides, EVEN IF he gets hurt while out on the job, at least hes got an ambulance on the spot! Its probably the safest situation to be in should an accident occur.
It's no secret that sometimes parents and children don't see eye to eye on situations, I'm no different. Apparently my parents do not approve of me becoming an EMT while in college, even though I haven't been able to find a job to pay for some of my own expenses ( this is something really important to me, as I moved out my parents house yet they still lend me money to pay for my own expenses (such as food and other accommodations). As of this time it's really impossible for me to find any sort of job (even minimum wage, which always tell me they aren't hiring). It's tough because my parents have an issue with the expenses for groceries and text books ( I even resorted to having to bring my clothes back home to my family house to wash them to save money).
My Dad told me he didn't want me to work asan EMT because it's dangerous work and he doesn't want me in harm's way. I understand where he's coming from, but even after internships, volunteering, and many other career related activities I haven't been able to put myself in a position where I can at least depend on myself. I volunteer part time to gain experience, and it sucks sometimes, especially when you have people yell at you (I come home sore after work) but I like that I'm doing positive things in the community instead of other things.
I'm getting my associate's at a community college (planning on getting my Bachelor's in Liberal Arts), because I'm not too sure what I should study. So my parents just tell me to get my degree in Liberal Arts so I'm just going to do what they say there because I'm not a big fan of college
Sorry if I seemed like I was ranting but I feel like my parents are giving me more problems than supporting me. I love them and everything, but it's starting to get to the point where I just can't agree with them on anything anymore.
Are you serious? Grow some "you know whats" and do what YOU want to do. So you'd rather do what your parents say and be miserable rather than do what makes you happy? Like Trimac20 said, EMT's are priceless. Unless you are an EMT is the most horrible neighborhood where there's shootouts every 10 seconds, what "harms way" would you be in? Try being an EMT in a warzone. If you let your parents run your life, how can you be successful in any relationship? Be your own person. Geeze, it's not like you said you wanted to go work at the Bunny Ranch or be striper or porn star
Perhaps you could sell this whole EMT thing to your parents more effectively and gain their support if you explain to them that being an EMT is part of a larger goal. If you enjoy the work perhaps you could consider an education in nursing or emergency medicine.
I have a couple friends that are EMT's. Between people swinging at you, addicts hopped up and trying to kill you, people bleeding all over you, needles and other sharp objects around you, not to mention the normal lifesaving requirements (burning cars, CPR, working in traffic, etc), it's a fairly tough job. Better in some places than others of course, but overall...it's not a job I'd want to do, yet i'm thankful for those who do.
Where is this happening because even in NYC, that RARELY happens.
Well parents have their dreams for their children, but at the end of the day if ur kid is happy and safe u can respect their choices. Oh it might take sometime, but love goes along way to bridge the gap. Good luck to the OP in career choice
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