Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Parenting
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 11-13-2023, 05:36 PM
 
Location: North Dakota
10,349 posts, read 13,947,673 times
Reputation: 18268

Advertisements

Quote:
Originally Posted by msRB311 View Post
This is an old thread that someone felt the need to revive.

Apparently studies show that spanking is pointless but the issue today is that many parents don't do much of anything when their kids misbehave. I see a lot of oh, he/she was diagnosed with " insert condition that is excuse for bad behavior " and that's why they act like a jerk ".

Quote:
Originally Posted by heavymind View Post
^^ They're all "on the spectrum" now, it seems.
Quote:
Originally Posted by msRB311 View Post
Yes...kind of sad really. I thought we had become more accepting of kids and were done with that 'children should be seen and not heard mentality' but it seems like anytime someone fidgets in the classroom or doesn't like certain textures it's like oh! they have this disorder....put them on these meds.
Spot on!
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 11-14-2023, 10:44 AM
 
3,155 posts, read 2,702,162 times
Reputation: 11985
Quote:
Originally Posted by heavymind View Post
^^ They're all "on the spectrum" now, it seems.
Yes.

Too many people think a diagnosis is an excuse. It is not; it is targeted direction explaining the specific ways in which you need to work HARDER to discipline your child, not carte blanche to let them run amok.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-14-2023, 11:23 AM
 
16,415 posts, read 8,215,049 times
Reputation: 11403
I still questions some of these spectrum disorders. So many more people with learning disabilities as well.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-14-2023, 05:54 PM
 
2,070 posts, read 1,013,726 times
Reputation: 6245
There was an episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm where Larry was dating a woman who had a little monster of a son. She kept insisting he was "on the spectrum" and Larry finally said that maybe the kid is just an a--hole. LOL
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-17-2023, 06:40 AM
 
Location: North Dakota
10,349 posts, read 13,947,673 times
Reputation: 18268
Quote:
Originally Posted by msRB311 View Post
I still questions some of these spectrum disorders. So many more people with learning disabilities as well.
Oppositional Defiant Disorder is the worst "diagnosis." We used to call that being an entitled jerk and dealt with it.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Parenting

All times are GMT -6.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top