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Old 11-16-2016, 06:19 AM
 
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Rioting? Absolutely not.
Protesting? Possibly, but I would make them pay me back the $$ immediately.
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Old 11-16-2016, 07:02 AM
 
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Yes. Absolutely.
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Old 11-16-2016, 07:07 AM
 
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Of course. For anything. I do not understand the whole tough love mentality. I suspect that is more common among less educated people.
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Old 11-16-2016, 07:09 AM
 
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yes- contingent on the cause.

My kids know that I will not directly or indirectly support certain causes. even if in the end its the legal system that benefits from the funds.
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Old 11-16-2016, 07:14 AM
 
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I wouldn't for rioting. I probably would for protesting though they would need to pay me back.
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Old 11-16-2016, 07:14 AM
 
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But if your child did get arrested for protesting/rioting would you bail them out?
Nope. They could sit in there til they are released on their own recognizance. And if they can't do that because they have priors, even more reason for them to sit there.
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Old 11-16-2016, 07:18 AM
 
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Of course. For anything. I do not understand the whole tough love mentality. I suspect that is more common among less educated people.
I always thought it was the other way around; that uneducated people continue to enable and bail out their kids, therefore allowing the behavior to continue.

That's what tough love is for. It is to teach our kids that something is wrong, and that they need to take personal responsibility for their actions. Continually bailing out an assclown does not do that; in fact, it encourages worse behavior.
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Old 11-16-2016, 07:24 AM
 
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Years back my two teenage daughters got into a little trouble and ended up in a police cell. They thought it was funny. I had to go and talk to the authorities and rescue the laughing Thelma and Louise.

No matter what- I would bail out my child - right or wrong. It is called family loyalty. My family and the loyalty to them comes before any loyalty to the government or the state in any form. Of course my daughters leaned one lesson...that there are consequence to disruptive uncivilized behaviour.

No,,,, leaving them in a jail cell does not teach them anything...it might act as the first step of institutionalization...you don't want your kids to become accustomed to jail.
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Old 11-16-2016, 07:31 AM
 
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For protesting, yes. Rioting, probably not.
Same here.

Nothing wrong with protesting.

Rioting, however, usually implies destruction and vandalism, possibly even assault.

It would depend on what my kid's actions were.
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Old 11-16-2016, 07:34 AM
 
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Protesting isn't illegal. You don't get arrested for protesting.


Trepassing, disorderly conduct, theft, vandalism are all things that often go with protesting, and no I wouldn't bail out my child for that.


Peaceful protesting is fine.
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