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Old 12-27-2012, 11:20 AM
 
Location: Philadelphia, Pa
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I am an adult.


if i need to say a curse word in front of my parents, i will.
After all, isnt that one of the perks about being an adult.


BTW, I am an old adult, and I think at this point my parents could care less.

my sons are not big cursers either, amazing as that may be, but we really werent a big F bomb type of family...
maybe in anger, not everyday descriptive.

So I guess having respect for the elderly just goes out the window because your an adult.
If my mother were to ask me to not curse, I'd do it because I have respect for her, being an adult has nothing to do with it.
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Old 12-27-2012, 11:41 AM
 
Location: Brooklyn New York
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So I guess having respect for the elderly just goes out the window because your an adult.
If my mother were to ask me to not curse, I'd do it because I have respect for her, being an adult has nothing to do with it.


yup, right out the window.

you missed the whole point.
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Old 12-29-2012, 10:01 AM
 
Location: Elsewhere
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So I guess having respect for the elderly just goes out the window because you're an adult.
If my mother were to ask me to not curse, I'd do it because I have respect for her, being an adult has nothing to do with it.
Hello. My mother does not use the "f" word and never has. I will not speak that way in front of her. She's 84 years old and comes from an era when that language wasn't thrown around the way we do now (and I do use those words with my friends).

As you said, respect doesn't end because yulk yulk look-at-me, I'm a big adult now. I also expect my 21-year-old daughter to not curse in front of Grandma, and she does not. I also have reprimanded my adult niece for using the "f" word in front of her grandmother. She should know better, but my brother is dead so I don't mind stepping in to remind her to grow up and have some respect.
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Old 01-02-2013, 11:29 AM
 
Location: Brooklyn New York
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Hello. My mother does not use the "f" word and never has. I will not speak that way in front of her. She's 84 years old and comes from an era when that language wasn't thrown around the way we do now (and I do use those words with my friends).

As you said, respect doesn't end because yulk yulk look-at-me, I'm a big adult now. I also expect my 21-year-old daughter to not curse in front of Grandma, and she does not. I also have reprimanded my adult niece for using the "f" word in front of her grandmother. She should know better, but my brother is dead so I don't mind stepping in to remind her to grow up and have some respect.
it means you are an adult and you are free to choose the words you want. I get you, i wouldnt want my children cursing in front of granny either. But from time to time it happens. Cursing is only words.

I have a BIL that hates cursing, and that's fine. But do you know how annoying it gets when there are a bunch of adults having a conversation and you have to constantly watch yourself that you don't say a curse word in front of him??, Well I find it freaking annoying. Again, I am not a big curser, but sometimes the word fits, and No, as an adult I don't want to have to watch my mouth, and as an adult, I shouldn't have to.

people curse, get over it.
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Old 01-03-2013, 07:34 PM
 
Location: Michigan
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I don't believe there are such things as "bad" words (or good ones)--every word has its usefulness at one time or another. But people who casually curse every other sentence just sound trashy, like they have a poor vocabulary and don't know how else to express themselves.
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Old 01-04-2013, 08:51 AM
 
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it means you are an adult and you are free to choose the words you want. I get you, i wouldnt want my children cursing in front of granny either. But from time to time it happens. Cursing is only words.

I have a BIL that hates cursing, and that's fine. But do you know how annoying it gets when there are a bunch of adults having a conversation and you have to constantly watch yourself that you don't say a curse word in front of him??, Well I find it freaking annoying. Again, I am not a big curser, but sometimes the word fits, and No, as an adult I don't want to have to watch my mouth, and as an adult, I shouldn't have to.

people curse, get over it.

^^^Sorry, but I still would not curse in front of my mother or any other elderly person I know who has mostly lived in an age when such language was considered rude and sneer at them to get over it. If you did it, I wouldn't say anything to you, but I'd think you were low class for your lack of respect to the elderly. Yes, I know you don't care what anyone thinks, you made that plain. But, I'd still think it!
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Old 01-04-2013, 12:04 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn New York
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^^^Sorry, but I still would not curse in front of my mother or any other elderly person I know who has mostly lived in an age when such language was considered rude and sneer at them to get over it. If you did it, I wouldn't say anything to you, but I'd think you were low class for your lack of respect to the elderly. Yes, I know you don't care what anyone thinks, you made that plain. But, I'd still think it!


I have also stated that I am not a big curser, but from time to time it does come out, I would say mainly in anger.

But if I was having a conversation with your mother or grandmother, you would have nothing to worry about, there obviously would be no need for the f-bomb to be blurted out, thus we could have a pleaseant conversation.

BTW, I know a lot of elderly church going ladies in my neighborhood, that could make a sailor blush.... just sayin.

and i do agree with you, cursing is low class, especially when it is used in every sentence, un necessarily.
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Old 01-04-2013, 12:25 PM
 
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BTW, I know a lot of elderly church going ladies in my neighborhood, that could make a sailor blush.... just sayin.
Really? I so need to visit Brooklyn some day!
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Old 01-04-2013, 02:28 PM
 
Location: Chapel Hill, N.C.
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There's "cursing" and there's "cursing". Hell, damn, pissed off, crap, b.i.t.c.h, fart, etc were once considered terrible curse words but now are in regular vernacular all over society as well as TV. I have a 31 yo son who drops the F bomb as easy as any word in his vocabulary. We still have young children at home and I have to remind him to clean up his mouth every time he comes home for a visit. it is so second nature to him he doesn't even realize he uses the word as much as he does, especially if he is really ranting about something. Still I don't allow it even though there are time I wish I could. So far I've refrained but after you hear a word so frequently you start to think it is just a regular word like all the words i first mentioned.

I think it's funny that b.i.t.c.h which is a proper word can't be typed on CD.
Sadly George Carlin's Seven Dirty Words routine is no longer available on you tube but a complete transcript is available.
http://www.openculture.com/2012/08/g...s_routine.html

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Old 01-05-2013, 10:02 AM
 
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I have also stated that I am not a big curser, but from time to time it does come out, I would say mainly in anger.

But if I was having a conversation with your mother or grandmother, you would have nothing to worry about, there obviously would be no need for the f-bomb to be blurted out, thus we could have a pleaseant conversation.

BTW, I know a lot of elderly church going ladies in my neighborhood, that could make a sailor blush.... just sayin.

and i do agree with you, cursing is low class, especially when it is used in every sentence, un necessarily.
Ah, I do curse myself. I have one particular favorite multi-syllablic work that starts with a "c" that I say all the time when I drop things or when inanimate objects turn against me and do things that make me angry. As a matter of fact, in a few minutes I am going to go outside and put license plates on my car, which I've never had to do before, and since I have limited tools and am hoping I can do it with what I have, I am sure I will be using that word today.
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