HELLO, I HONESTLY HOPE WHAT I TELL YOU HELPS BUT IF YOU KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT SEARCHING FOR SOMEONE (THIS IS VERY HARD TO DO) IS NOT TO GET YOUR HOPES UP.
OK, I DONT KNOW ABOUT BIRTH PARENTS BUT TRY THIS, THESE PEOPLE ARE ACCURATE AND FOUND WHO I WAS LOOKING FOR BUT UNFORTUNATLY THE KIDS HAVE TO BE 21 TO DIRCTLY ASK THEM FOR CONTACT AND BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT 21 THE AGENCY HAD TO ASK THE ADPTIVE PARENTS FOR PERMISSION AND I DONT KNOW WHY BUT THE PARENTS SAID NO. ANYWAY, IM SORRY BACK TO YOU.
I WILL KEEP MY FINGERS CROSSED AND HOPE THIS HELPS.
MIDWEST ADOPTION CENTER IN DES PLAINS ILLINOIS HAS ACCESS TO CLOSED ADOPTION FILES. IT IS TOTALLY FREE AND THEY ONLY REQUIRE INFORMATION THAT YOU HAVE IF YOU HAVE ANY AT ALL. LIKE I SAID, I DO NOT KNOW ABOUT SEARCHING THE PARENTS BUT THEY MIGHT BE ABLE TO DIRECT YOU. THEY WILL ASSIGN YOU A CASEWORKER AND SO FAR EVERYONE I HAVE MET HAS BEEN EXTREMELY NICE AND NOT ONLY SYMPATHETIC BUT VERY UNDERSTANDING. i SURE WISH i KNEW THAT 10 YEARS AGO. yOU MIGHT ALSO WANT TO TRY ISSR. tHEY TAKE INFORMATION FOR MEDICAL REASONS TO SHARE WITH ANYONE RELATED TO YOUR CASE TO SHARE WITH THEM. MAYBE YOUR PARENTS HAVE FILLED OUT INFORMATION ABOUT THEIR MEDICAL TO GET PASSED ON TO YOU. I DONT KNOW BUT ANYTHING IS A SHOT. YOU WILL HAVE TO HAVE THE PAPERWORK NOTORIZED AND SEND IT BACK TO THEM
IF YOU FEEL THAT YOU NEED TO TALK TO SOMEONE THEN I STRONGLY SUGGEST MIDWEST. THE CASEWORKERS ARE COUNSELORS.
GOOD LUCK
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