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Old 10-14-2011, 10:55 AM
 
Location: El Paso, TX
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I was taught that a tip to a restaurant server should reflect the quality of the service and is entirely voluntary on the part of the patron, as the usual low base pay of the server is an issue between that person and the restaurant.

San Francisco restaurants thinks differently:

San Francisco Restaurants Want To Make 25% Standard Tip Rate « CBS San Francisco

Well, hey, let's include fast-food workers, too, to be fair. And bar servers who hand you your drink.

Yes, I was a waitress for several years. This trend does not sit well with me and it would affect my choosing to dine out, if I lived in SF.
That is annoying to me. Why then call it a tip if it is mandatory.

This is one instance where the people need to vote and tell legislators no on the mandatory tip. California if very good at doing all kinds of referndums and using the direct democracy system even though it can be to their detriment at times but in this one the people need to tell legislators not to interfere with free commerce between the business and the customer. Take care.
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Old 10-14-2011, 10:56 AM
 
Location: Between Seattle and Portland
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I wonder if restaurant owners and managers are aware of the blatant racism of such sites as this:

Service Industry Blog - iGotStiffed.com

With blog entries on:

"creepy, stinky Mexicans"
"black people don't tip"
"damn kids and their parents"
"big fat ghetto b*tches"

it's obvious the entitlement mindset is alive and well in the service industry. Shameful!

If the 25% mandatory tip plan goes into effect, I predict a real upswing in buying fast food and deli offerings at the market in lieu of going out to eat -- duh.
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Old 10-14-2011, 11:03 AM
 
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Ridiculous. Restaurants should pay employees what they're worth, and not depend on customers to subsidize their wages. I'd like to see an end to tipping altogether.
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Old 10-14-2011, 11:05 AM
 
Location: Silver Springs, FL
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If I get excellent service, excellent tip, crappy service, crappy tip, bad service/bad food, no tip...

If these poor overworked underpaid waiters and waitresses need more money the establishment should raise their salaries

There's are reasons I'll never visit LA-LA land, this just adds to my list...
You punish the server for what the kitchen is responsible for?
Why cant you open your mouth and say something about the food?
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Old 10-14-2011, 11:32 AM
 
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Originally Posted by stonecypher5413 View Post
I was taught that a tip to a restaurant server should reflect the quality of the service and is entirely voluntary on the part of the patron, as the usual low base pay of the server is an issue between that person and the restaurant.

San Francisco restaurants thinks differently:

San Francisco Restaurants Want To Make 25% Standard Tip Rate « CBS San Francisco

Well, hey, let's include fast-food workers, too, to be fair. And bar servers who hand you your drink.

Yes, I was a waitress for several years. This trend does not sit well with me and it would affect my choosing to dine out, if I lived in SF.
Did anybody see "Reservoir Dogs"?...
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Old 10-14-2011, 11:45 AM
 
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Did anybody see "Reservoir Dogs"?...
Classic sequence.

Tipping should not be mandatory, but customers should tip and make it reflective of the service.

I am a pretty good tipper, but have diluted it on the rare occassion that service is lousy. I am pretty forgiving for the most part.

I am also very careful not to be a PITA customer.
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Old 10-14-2011, 11:53 AM
 
Location: Bella Vista
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the way service has DECLINED they should be lucky to get 10%
wow seriously? You're a disgrace. It's sickening how little people tip. I generally tip 20 - 25 percent depending on the service. I don't think I've ever tipped above 25. Even with awful service I never tip below 20 because often those tips are shared with others and i don't think it's fair to punish others because of one loser.

When you go out to eat, factor in AT LEAST 15 percent for a tip regardless of service. If you can't do that then don't go out.

I would def support mandatory tipping. Too many cheap people like this walking around.
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Old 10-14-2011, 11:57 AM
 
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wow seriously? You're a disgrace. It's sickening how little people tip. I generally tip 20 - 25 percent depending on the service. I don't think I've ever tipped above 25. Even with awful service I never tip below 20 because often those tips are shared with others and i don't think it's fair to punish others because of one loser.

When you go out to eat, factor in AT LEAST 15 percent for a tip regardless of service. If you can't do that then don't go out.

I would def support mandatory tipping. Too many cheap people like this walking around.
When my waiter/waitress treats me/my family like they are doing me a favor they DESERVE and will get nothing, nada, zip...

Has nothing to do with being cheap...

For whatever reason they are working in a field with the customer having certain expectations and when those expectations are not met, well........

When I go out to dine I expect to tip, whether I do or not depends on the service and attitude I receive and I'm not going to feel the least bit guilty that "tips are shared" and I'm punishing other employees in the establishment...

That is just ludicrous...

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Old 10-14-2011, 12:18 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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When my waiter/waitress treats me/my family like they are doing me a favor they DESERVE and will get nothing, nada, zip...

Has nothing to do with being cheap...

For whatever reason they are working in a field with the customer having certain expectations and when those expectations are not met, well........

When I go out to dine I expect to tip, whether I do or not depends on the service and attitude I receive and I'm not going to feel the least bit guilty that "tips are shared" and I'm punishing other employees in the establishment...

That is just ludicrous...
At risk of being labeled a 'leftist europhile', I certainly agree with the European method on this. In the parts of Europe that I have visited, wait staff are paid an actual wage and any tipping is the result of exceptional service.

The US method is ridiculous.

What other service are you allowed to decide payment for after the service has been completed?

If I hire someone to shingle my house I can't just decide to pay only for materials because he was rude.
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Old 10-14-2011, 12:29 PM
 
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What other service are you allowed to decide payment for after the service has been completed?
Lets see....

Agreed service: kid mows my lawn (and cleans up driveway and sidewalks which are not part of the agreement)... TIP

Agreed service: My mechanic fixes "the problem" and makes another fix for free (not part of our agreement)... TIP

Agreed service: Hire someone to paint my home and paints detached garage with leftover paint for no additional cost (not part of our agreement)... TIP

Shall I continue?

Europe and the United States: apples and oranges, oil and water...
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