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Old 01-21-2012, 08:07 AM
 
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Why is this even being compared? This is another example of people throwing "gay rights" into the face of those who want them to just shut up and live their lives.
It has nothing to do with gay rights being thrown in people's faces. It's just that since anti-gays love to claim gays can't be good parents due to not having both a mother and father (ignoring the fact that single parents/divorced parents are not held to the same scrutiny), these types of studies dispel that myth.

Gays can make just as good parents as straights.
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Old 01-21-2012, 08:10 AM
 
Location: Inland Levy County, FL
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It has nothing to do with gay rights being thrown in people's faces. It's just that since anti-gays love to claim gays can't be good parents due to not having both a mother and father (ignoring the fact that single parents/divorced parents are not held to the same scrutiny), these types of studies dispel that myth.

Gays can make just as good parents as straights.
The part of the study presented here and the thread title are misleading, as we have been discussing here. That's why I said that.
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Old 01-21-2012, 08:15 AM
 
Location: California
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Default Gay parents possibly better than heterosexual parents

It gives a new meaning to the phrase " if you don't mind me you wont be able to sit for a week"
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Old 01-21-2012, 08:56 AM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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It gives a new meaning to the phrase " if you don't mind me you wont be able to sit for a week"
Interesting that thinking about the anal rape of children brings not one, but two smiles to your face.
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Old 01-21-2012, 09:02 AM
 
Location: One of the 13 original colonies.
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Gay parents possibly better than heterosexual parents .




Now this is about the biggest bunch of BS I have ever seen. No wonder this world is so screwed up today. Whats next???
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Old 01-21-2012, 09:51 AM
 
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The part of the study presented here and the thread title are misleading, as we have been discussing here. That's why I said that.
Perhaps. Obviously gays are more likely to genuinely want children and are more likely to adopt, since they are not capable of having "oops" babies. So that's the only argument I could see over your average straight couple who doesn't really plan it.

Only other thing I could see with gay parents is they might be more likely to instill compassion, tolerance, and non-judgment into their kids based on the struggles they've had to deal with.

Not that those necessarily make them better parents, but merely they may have something beneficial to contribute.
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Old 01-21-2012, 10:12 AM
 
Location: Florida
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Old 01-21-2012, 10:14 AM
 
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I love studies and stats. Does this one take into account that those 50% unwanted pregnancies seem to keep happening to the same group of parents over and over?
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Old 01-21-2012, 10:18 AM
 
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Why is it automatically "bigoted" when someone doesn't agree with being gay? Nobody is getting defensive, they are stating their opinion, just as you are. How would you like it if I said everyone who supports gays is a whack job? I don't actually think that, but you probably wouldn't like it too much. It really doesn't make for good conversation when you start throwing out words like "bigot" on these topics. In fact, the thread starts to get nasty.

Your post is dead on
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Old 01-21-2012, 10:29 AM
 
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My own personal opinion? YES... Most psychologists and psychiatrists are crackpots. I have worked around them and find them for the most part a half a bubble off. I can only say that I have as a straight parent, raised 4 upstanding college graduates that contribute to their society and have also become excellent parents. They are happy and well adjusted. I doubt many parents, gay or straight could have done a better job.
Good parents aren't really all that confident that they've done everything right.
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