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The statistics are out there everywhere and well known, black males have a high percentage rate of making kids but not fathering them. Maybe a woman can come post here and say "but...but,,,my black guy wasn't like that" but no one wants to openly discuss the rate of how black men don't want to be active fathers. You can also say "but...but..other men white or whatever don't stay around" which is true but the percentage rate is lower.
Add typical hip-hop rap lyrics that promote that lifestyle, and you see it come to be. Maybe one day when someone cam openly criticize this without being called a racist is the day maybe the percentages fall and lifestyles change.
Be quiet...you know people around here can't handle the truth!
Its what I've been saying all along.
80% of the time,it isn't the black woman's fault,it isn't the white woman's fault,its the BLACK man's fault that many of these moms are single.
They don't know responsibility. They like to be a big baby.
Incidently,Kathy is proving that point.
Kanye West amd Kim K are a bad example. He isn't with her 60% of the time. I read an article on it. Plus....they aren't MaRRIED.
So is the president and his father.
Be quiet...you know people around here can't handle the truth!
Its what I've been saying all along.
80% of the time,it isn't the black woman's fault,it isn't the white woman's fault,its the BLACK man's fault that many of these moms are single.
They don't know responsibility. They like to be a big baby.
Incidently,Kathy is proving that point. So is the president and his father.
Where is that coming from? I'm surprised to be reading this from you, although maybe I have you confused with some else from the relationships forum.
The statistics are out there everywhere and well known, black males have a high percentage rate of making kids but not fathering them. Maybe a woman can come post here and say "but...but,,,my black guy wasn't like that" but no one wants to openly discuss the rate of how black men don't want to be active fathers. You can also say "but...but..other men white or whatever don't stay around" which is true but the percentage rate is lower.
Add typical hip-hop rap lyrics that promote that lifestyle, and you see it come to be. Maybe one day when someone cam openly criticize this without being called a racist is the day maybe the percentages fall and lifestyles change.
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Originally Posted by Braunwyn
Where is that coming from? I'm surprised to be reading this from you, although maybe I have you confused with some else from the relationships forum.
Me too,although I've always been a moderate.
I really should not have pointed some things out,but I call it as I see it.
I was just saying the president's father also abandoned the family.
I know this is really none of my business since I don't date or even interested to be friend with them.
So someone starts a thread asking a question about people he or she has no intention on dating or even becoming friend's with and the usual suspects race in like sharks on a wounded seal..
How can one not be either racists, ignorant or both, when the common theme seems to be "yes white men get women pregnate and abandone them but black men do it more."
So the issue of absent fathers fall to the wayside in order to trumpet "black absent fathers."
Me too,although I've always been a moderate.
I really should not have pointed some things out,but I call it as I see it.
I was just saying the president's father also abandoned the family.
He did, but the president is an excellent father and an amazing man. Again, this points to SES and not race.
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