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This seems to be true. I personally believe that women of color really should leave most of that feminism nonsense to them and focus on our traditional cultural values. I vividly remember sitting and talking with friends of mine about how our mothers always cooked for our fathers and did other things around the home (we are all of Caribbean & African background).
The one white American girl turned up her nose and said how "we women have worked too hard and struggled too much for that" and how her mother never did those things for her father. We were just like...who is "we?" LOL. We are not struggling against any and every traditional value just because it may please or benefit men...please.
Agreed and many of us "anglo white" dudes are dating and marrying Indian Hispanic, Black and Asian women because we're tired of the "you owe me" attitude of too many of the anglo white women out there.
The same can be said for whites. Particularly moving to the "real" South, much of the behavior I have witnessed among whites is not favorable either. Additionally, remember that so many whites (especially men) in this nation were assaulting, raping and/or killing African-Americans without any repercussions for hundreds of years (and Native Americans as well). Their level of crime was appalling and never fully documented. African-Americans have a very long time to even begin to catch up with White Americans...and likely never will. Not just because more White Americans have gotten it together in the last 60 years or so does that give you and room to talk. Scores of White Americans descend from brazen criminals.
2 things here: 1, we're NOT responsible for what our ancestors did and 2, the Black hood rats are doing things to each other that would make the old KKK sick.
That's no excuse for the current typical black behavior. And I've spent time down South, don't even try it.
So what is the excuse for the "typical" white behavior?
Since we are using anecdotal information as fact, it happens to be the white people in my office who have the 'issues' (family drama, drug abuse, mental issues, financial problems, legal issues, child molestation allegations, etc.) while everyone else (Black and Hispanic) come from solid backgrounds and live drama-free lives.
So what is the excuse for the "typical" white behavior?
Since we are using anecdotal information as fact, it happens to be the white people in my office who have the 'issues' (family drama, drug abuse, mental issues, financial problems, legal issues, child molestation allegations, etc.) while everyone else (Black and Hispanic) come from solid backgrounds and live drama-free lives.
where do you work? the imaginary building on lollipop lane?
There is no excuse for the current typical white behavior either, nor the attempt to ignore their long, despicable history of criminality in the U.S. Don't ignore or make excuses for the foolishness down South either. And most of them will all run into church on Sunday morning as if their so-called Christianity even makes a different in most of their lives. Please.
White "foolishness" pales in comparison to typical black behavior. And that's a fact.
If you want to talk about the history of bad behavior, you should begin with the African leaders who sold their own people into slavery.
Agreed and many of us "anglo white" dudes are dating and marrying Indian Hispanic, Black and Asian women because we're tired of the "you owe me" attitude of too many of the anglo white women out there.
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Originally Posted by Packard fan
2 things here: 1, we're NOT responsible for what our ancestors did and 2, the Black hood rats are doing things to each other that would make the old KKK sick.
No one said you all were responsible for it, but it is still white American history. For those "whites" so stuck on "black" behavior, remember that at a certain point "whites" in the U.S. were committing atrocities that "blacks" in this place will never equal in measure. Virtually every group of humans has had an unfavorable of history. Not because "yours" may have calmed down in some ways for the moment doesn't mean you have any room to talk.
Agreed and many of us "anglo white" dudes are dating and marrying Indian Hispanic, Black and Asian women because we're tired of the "you owe me" attitude of too many of the anglo white women out there.
I started shying away from white girls when it occurred to me that many of them need bs and mayhem in their lives.
White "foolishness" pales in comparison to typical black behavior. And that's a fact.
If you want to talk about the history of bad behavior, you should begin with the African leaders who sold their own people into slavery.
No, it doesn't. White criminality went on from hundreds of years. African leaders may have sold slaves, like many other leaders around the world. However, they did not commit the hundreds of years of atrocities that many White Americans did on American soil. Not only slavery but the genocide of Native Americans that they refuse to acknowledge. But yet what to talk about genocide that happens elsewhere. They fool no one but themselves. And they you wonder why the Muslim world laughs at American criticism of their religion and cultures...
No one said you all were responsible for it, but it is still white American history. For those "whites" so stuck on "black" behavior, remember that at a certain point "whites" in the U.S. were committing atrocities that "blacks" in this place will never equal in measure. Virtually every group of humans has had an unfavorable of history. Not because "yours" may have calmed down in some ways for the moment doesn't mean you have any room to talk.
Yeah, but we've progressed. It'd be nice if you'd get with the program.
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