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In Japan 40% of men and women in their 20's and 30's are virgins. The reasons are economic for men. In Japan if you as a man don't make enough money to attract a woman's attention, you don't put yourself out there. Women in Japan, for their part, pick over the minority of men who have the economic means and the rest stay single. What happened to Japan is happening to America. American men are less honest about it. The o.p. say's he makes a nice living. Probably, as long as he stays single. It won't make the cut out there in the dating world as a couple of hurtful rejections have proven. I don't believe men who say they would rather masturbate and that women are too much trouble. You don't just come to that, you have to have had your heart trampled on a bit first. Like another recent poster I was left for dead by a harpie of an ex-wife. I've never lost my taste for female companionship though. Porn just doesn't compare. I wish it did. Life would indeed be "easier". But that's not how we made it to the top of the food chain. I think its all the plastic in the environment. We've killed something elemental in our men. It's physical. You can look at them and see that something is physically missing.
What if someone who wasn't into Star Trek was told "you just watched Star Trek, but never really Trekked yourself. You are missing a critical development stage of your life."
The whole physical thing is overrated. Honestly, I can get more pleasure from a late-night internet forearm workout than I can get from any woman, and with a lot less hassle.
Have you ever considered that you might be gay? That you are demonizing women because you're afraid to come out of the closet??
In Japan 40% of men and women in their 20's and 30's are virgins. The reasons are economic for men. In Japan if you as a man don't make enough money to attract a woman's attention, you don't put yourself out there. Women in Japan, for their part, pick over the minority of men who have the economic means and the rest stay single. What happened to Japan is happening to America. American men are less honest about it. The o.p. say's he makes a nice living. Probably, as long as he stays single. It won't make the cut out there in the dating world as a couple of hurtful rejections have proven. I don't believe men who say they would rather masturbate and that women are too much trouble. You don't just come to that, you have to have had your heart trampled on a bit first. Like another recent poster I was left for dead by a harpie of an ex-wife. I've never lost my taste for female companionship though. Porn just doesn't compare. I wish it did. Life would indeed be "easier". But that's not how we made it to the top of the food chain. I think its all the plastic in the environment. We've killed something elemental in our men. It's physical. You can look at them and see that something is physically missing.
And w/ Japan hard at work on sex robots, the trend will only intensify.
The right woman is a friend. The right woman is the first person that you want to tell things to. The right woman fights with you because she cares and is intelligent. The right woman is there to help you when there is a job loss and vice versa.
What I don't understand is your lack of a libido.
Sounds like a Disney movie Relationships are hard work, that's why so many fail. Being single give you an advantage because you can only blame yourself for failing.
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