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Old 09-18-2008, 04:00 PM
 
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Im asian(korean) and something I have notice over a period of time. Is that black men in general are more confident in themselves. Than men in other races for some reason. Black men have a certain swagger about them that other men don't exhibit. I have dated white and asian men before so this is from my own personal experience. My current boyfnend is black. I have heard other races of women say the same thing about the confidence factor. Why don't asian and white men feel as confident about themselves like black men? When I have seen attractive white or asian men that I liked. I almost have to stare at them and say ''hey i think you are cute''. And still most are scared to approach me. When I see a attractive black guy I like. I usually just have to smile one time or look. And they come up and talk to me. Why is that?

 
Old 09-18-2008, 04:13 PM
 
Location: Wilmington, NC
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it has to do with the individual, not a race.
 
Old 09-18-2008, 04:22 PM
 
Location: Floribama
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Im asian(korean) and something I have notice over a period of time. Is that black men in general are more confident in themselves. Than men in other races for some reason. Black men have a certain swagger about them that other men don't exhibit. I have dated white and asian men before so this is from my own personal experience. My current boyfnend is black. I have heard other races of women say the same thing about the confidence factor. Why don't asian and white men feel as confident about themselves like black men? When I have seen attractive white or asian men that I liked. I almost have to stare at them and say ''hey i think you are cute''. And still most are scared to approach me. When I see a attractive black guy I like. I usually just have to smile one time or look. And they come up and talk to me. Why is that?
You like it when guys cut to the chase like that? You don't like a little "peek a boo" flirting?
 
Old 09-18-2008, 05:02 PM
 
Location: Houston Texas
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On the flip side of the coin I have found that latina women are the most confident and straightforward when it comes to meeting and dating compared to other races of women. They play the fewest head games by far and always tell you what is on their minds!
 
Old 09-18-2008, 05:08 PM
 
Location: Denver
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On the flip side of the coin I have found that latina women are the most confident and straightforward when it comes to meeting and dating compared to other races of women. They play the fewest head games by far and always tell you what is on their minds!
I'll agree with that, just don't get them angry...I know
 
Old 09-18-2008, 05:09 PM
 
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'Size' seems to grant a certain degree of confidence ya know ....
 
Old 09-18-2008, 07:12 PM
 
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I think that was a typo. Did you mean to say confinement?
 
Old 09-18-2008, 07:42 PM
 
Location: At my computador
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Im asian(korean) and something I have notice over a period of time. Is that black men in general are more confident in themselves. Than men in other races for some reason. Black men have a certain swagger about them that other men don't exhibit. I have dated white and asian men before so this is from my own personal experience. My current boyfnend is black. I have heard other races of women say the same thing about the confidence factor. Why don't asian and white men feel as confident about themselves like black men? When I have seen attractive white or asian men that I liked. I almost have to stare at them and say ''hey i think you are cute''. And still most are scared to approach me. When I see a attractive black guy I like. I usually just have to smile one time or look. And they come up and talk to me. Why is that?
Because when a white man approaches a woman like that, they're considered scum (along with the woman who responds to it.) However, when a black man does it, he's forgiven because no one really expects anything better.
 
Old 09-18-2008, 08:00 PM
 
Location: Apple Valley Calif
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Because when a white man approaches a woman like that, they're considered scum (along with the woman who responds to it.) However, when a black man does it, he's forgiven because no one really expects anything better.
True, and he has to hit quick before his other three pregnant girlfrinds find out he's at it again..
their motto is hit and run, let someone else raise the kids I leave behind...
 
Old 09-18-2008, 08:11 PM
 
Location: Floribama
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I think it all boils down to the "react now, think later" mentality.
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