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Old 10-08-2012, 11:14 AM
 
Location: The State Of California
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I work with a guy who was married to a woman. They separated, and he's as gay as you can possibly be. He has absolutely no attraction to women whatsoever. He's not bisexual, he's gay. And yet, he's slept with both men and women.

Once again, sexual behavior does not dictate sexual orientation.
if he is not BI SEXUAL why in the world did he sleep with a woman...even marry a woman , that BI SEXUAL to me I don't know about you , but to me if it walks like a duck and sound like a duck and taste like a duck it a duck.

 
Old 10-08-2012, 11:21 AM
 
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if he is not BI SEXUAL why in the world did he sleep with a woman...even marry a woman ,
It's called societal pressure. He was expected to marry a woman and didn't want to deal with the stigma of being gay, so he entered a sham marriage, just like so many men do. Do you not read the news? Look how many married, family values republicans get caught in gay scandals. It's because they force themselves to be in a relationship with women because society demands it, when they have no attraction to women. Eventually they crack under the pressure of trying to live a lie.

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that BI SEXUAL to me I don't know about you , but to me if it walks like a duck and sound like a duck and taste like a duck it a duck.
It may seem that way to you, but it isn't.
 
Old 10-08-2012, 01:13 PM
 
Location: The State Of California
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It's called societal pressure. He was expected to marry a woman and didn't want to deal with the stigma of being gay, so he entered a sham marriage,
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oh I agree with that , men that stay in the closet much too long and finally bust the doors down.


just like so many men do. Do you not read the news? Look how many married, family values republicans get caught in gay scandals. It's because they force themselves to be in a relationship with women because society demands it, when they have no attraction to women. Eventually they crack under the pressure of trying to live a lie.


didn't that very thing happen somewhere in boise ID I believe or was it utah ? I get you now there are some BI SEXUALS that enjoy sex with males and females and there are other HOMOSEXUALS who are forced into sexual relationship because of societal pressures , and are forced BI SEXUALS never the less still having sexual relationships with both gender....got ya...

It may seem that way to you, but it isn't.
my 14 year old daughter got on the computer after me and said that my reply to you was country LOL..FOMC falling out of my chair (and) my wife jumped in to talking about I could've said it a little bit better ( but I'm 60 years young and set in my way ) I just got to be me LOL here's the quote below..

howest2008 if he is not BI SEXUAL why in the world did he sleep with a woman...even marry a woman , that BI SEXUAL to me I don't know about you , but to me if it walks like a duck and sound like a duck and taste like a duck it a duck.

my daughter said that it doesn't matter to her she's heterosexual and whatever orenitation anybody else has it's theirs business and not hers...LOL. I told her that I have my opinions and at the end of the day it's not going to matter to me either way either( because people are going to do what they want to do ) illregardless of what I believe in or feel GOD felt the same way when he turned people over to a reprobate mind. everybody on this forum have a great day and let's learn to agree to disagree will ya I'm out for today.
 
Old 10-08-2012, 06:43 PM
 
Location: TX
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I knew I couldn't substantiate something you don't want to believe. Even quotes and cites from the beloved Loving case aren't enough.
Well of course not. None of this shows how "civic marriage in the U.S. is in part to encourage" anything, much less "heterosexual couples to bear and raise children". But it's interesting how even you freely admit you can't support your argument with facts that are relevant.

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The 8th Circuit Court of Appeals in 2006 wrote --- "But the argument disregards the expressed intent of traditional marriage laws --- to encourage heterosexual couples to bear and raise chilren in committed marriage relationships."

I presume those silly judges use the word 'traditional' in a limited sense, excluding ancient Rome and Greece, aberrant periods of long-ago, and stick to the U.S. in modern times.
No one should be pretending to be for traditional "values", or hiding behind the word "traditional" at all, if they don't want to imitate the absolute earliest era when it comes to marriage as a concept, and in every way (not just the anti-gay facet of it). Call it what it is. You are standing against gay marriage, not for traditional values. The only thing even arguably traditional about modern-day marriage is exactly that only heterosexuals can marry (in most states). Everything else is an undeniable deviation from what marriage used to be, and telling enough, none of you seem upset about this.

Take women's rights for example. Now, here is a fundamental change to marriage because beforehand it was pretty much unanimous that the man was the head of the household. It literally shaped the entire marriage, this aspect of it in those "good old days" when the thought of gay marriage in the U.S. was nothing more than a joke. But now look at it. Women are seen by the vast majority of married folks as equals therefore clashing with "traditional values". But that's fine with the would-be "traditionalists" nowadays. Why? Because they've lost most of their prejudice for women. They've maintained the one they have for gays, however
 
Old 10-08-2012, 08:12 PM
 
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no it's makes him BI SEXUAL , he's going to hump something be it female or male.....
It doesn't make it either, legs don't have a gender and dogs don't care whose legs they are humping. They may hump a genderless pillow as well. You are projecting human concepts onto animals.
 
Old 10-08-2012, 11:32 PM
 
Location: The Land of Reason
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if he is not BI SEXUAL why in the world did he sleep with a woman...even marry a woman , that BI SEXUAL to me I don't know about you , but to me if it walks like a duck and sound like a duck and taste like a duck it a duck.
Actually there are alot of gaymen and women that get married and pretend to be straight because of people like yourself who have very narrow views on sexuality.
 
Old 10-08-2012, 11:35 PM
 
Location: The Land of Reason
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no it's makes him BI SEXUAL , he's going to hump something be it female or male.....

Actually the dog does not care about the sex of the owner of the leg, he just wants to hump something. Quick question, if he humps an inanimate object does that make him omni-sexual?
 
Old 10-09-2012, 04:00 AM
 
Location: The State Of California
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It doesn't make it either, legs don't have a gender and dogs don't care whose legs they are humping. They may hump a genderless pillow as well. You are projecting human concepts onto animals.
how in the world did we get off on dogs humping legs ?
 
Old 10-09-2012, 04:06 AM
 
Location: The State Of California
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Actually there are alot of gaymen and women that get married and pretend to be straight because of people like yourself who have very narrow views on sexuality.
i'm not a oppressor of gays and gays have very narrow minds also otherwises gays would have persued equal rights under the institution of domestic partnership or civil unions. GOD also has a very narrow mind like me so i'm in very good company indeed.
 
Old 10-09-2012, 04:09 AM
 
Location: The State Of California
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Actually the dog does not care about the sex of the owner of the leg, he just wants to hump something. Quick question, if he humps an inanimate object does that make him omni-sexual?
dogs sexuality has nothing to do with human sexuality we don't go around sniffing each other butts.
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