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I would think they would welcome it, as many men have a favorable view of two hot chicks making out, as opposed to a flannel wearing spikey haired lesbo, it is winning acceptance for them.
I would rather watch the spikey haired lesbo vs. the hottest barsexual drunk girl, at least in my mind the spikey lesbo is going to take that home and have something possibly more meaningful or substantial vs. the "hot" barsexual who is just adding to the STD pool.
If 2 chicks want to play with each other for attention, why is that anybody else's business? Gays want people out of their lives, but find it perfectly okay to step in and preach their beliefs on topics and say how others should act sexually?
True- I am trying to come up with a reason that is wrong.
I guess I just do not see why lesbians would be bothered by it.
Your typical lesbian is dog ugly. They obviously resent the hotness factor of the girls in question because if they themselves were more attractive they too might have other options. As it is they're limited to other dog ugly 'lesbians'.
I guess my take on the article was that if these drunk girls in bars are really exploring their sexuality and struggling to determine their true selves, the majority of lesbians and bisexual women would offer understanding and support, but if they are doing it because it is drunk, mindless fun, or used to pick up guys, it minimizes the struggles of the majority of gay people. It equates to wearing a "black" suit for fun. Some people may think it's funny or cute, but most will think it insensitive. For most in the LGBT community, coming out often results in immense sacrifice and loss. Rejection by family and friends, loss of employment, lack of equality, and ongoing prejudice from the community (and this board) are all too common. To be able to live and love openly is a wonderful journey most hate to see minimized by drunk teens and tweens who are not gay or bi, just drunk and being silly.
"It's like this. Every female in the world....every last one of 'em...is really bisexual. There ain't no lesbians, know why? If a chick really was a lesbian why do they keep using vibrators shaped like Johnsons? Why do they strap stuff on and pretend they're guys? Why do they wear our clothes and go out with other so-called lesbians? Why does one always have to be the "man" in the relationship? Man, all women are bisexual. Deep down, every woman. It's just that 90% of them are either afraid to admit it or ain't realized it yet."
"It's like this. Every female in the world....every last one of 'em...is really bisexual. There ain't no lesbians, know why? If a chick really was a lesbian why do they keep using vibrators shaped like Johnsons? Why do they strap stuff on and pretend they're guys? Why do they wear our clothes and go out with other so-called lesbians? Why does one always have to be the "man" in the relationship? Man, all women are bisexual. Deep down, every woman. It's just that 90% of them are either afraid to admit it or ain't realized it yet."
-- little old man from Pasadena
Many valid questions here that I have often asked myself. The 'lesbian community' has always been known for a contemptuous attitude towards men. Men are inferior, etc etc etc. Yet, so many lesbians who disparage men this way try and emulate male appearance, demeanor, manner of dress, a 'macho' attitude, riding Harleys with their '*****' on the back, waffle stomper boots, wallets with chains, buzz haircuts. Whatever trips yer trigger I guess, but, why spout off about what 'losers' we men are, and then try to act and look like a man? Indeed, right down to faking our natural ....equipment. It IS confusing at times, this gender identification thing.
Many valid questions here that I have often asked myself. The 'lesbian community' has always been known for a contemptuous attitude towards men. Men are inferior, etc etc etc. Yet, so many lesbians who disparage men this way try and emulate male appearance, demeanor, manner of dress, a 'macho' attitude, riding Harleys with their '*****' on the back, waffle stomper boots, wallets with chains, buzz haircuts. Whatever trips yer trigger I guess, but, why spout off about what 'losers' we men are, and then try to act and look like a man? Indeed, right down to faking our natural ....equipment. It IS confusing at times, this gender identification thing.
I will say this. I had a "lesbian" friend for a while, who seemed to just enjoy posing naked for me, all the time. She spent more time in the buff with me than she did with her "girlfriends". Big time flirt, no hesitation with it either. Mighty funny.
Your typical lesbian is dog ugly. They obviously resent the hotness factor of the girls in question because if they themselves were more attractive they too might have other options. As it is they're limited to other dog ugly 'lesbians'.
You obviously don't know many lesbians.
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Originally Posted by NVplumber
Many valid questions here that I have often asked myself. The 'lesbian community' has always been known for a contemptuous attitude towards men. Men are inferior, etc etc etc. Yet, so many lesbians who disparage men this way try and emulate male appearance, demeanor, manner of dress, a 'macho' attitude, riding Harleys with their '*****' on the back, waffle stomper boots, wallets with chains, buzz haircuts. Whatever trips yer trigger I guess, but, why spout off about what 'losers' we men are, and then try to act and look like a man? Indeed, right down to faking our natural ....equipment. It IS confusing at times, this gender identification thing.
The man hating thing is a stereotype. I honestly don't know any lesbians that hate men. There is also this new term flying around called a "lesbro." They basically represent the straight male friends they many lesbians have. So yeah, I think you might be a little off on that one. Lesbians, just like all other people, fill a spectrum. Just like you have straight girls who are tomboys and dress more masculine, you also have many many lesbians that dress very feminine. However, walking down the street you would never know that they are gay, so it's easy to believe that all lesbians are butch.
As far as I'm concerned all PDA's are for the benifit of those around them and because they seek attention. I don't care what sexuallity is involed. It's all adolecent and immature and it's funny that anyone who does it would complain about anyone else doing it for any reason.
I don't care about anyones sexuality but some people spend FAR TOO MUCH TIME trying to analyze it, define it, and draw lines around it. Stupid people.
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. Whatever trips yer trigger I guess, but, why spout off about what 'losers' we men are, and then try to act and look like a man? Indeed, right down to faking our natural ....equipment. It IS confusing at times, this gender identification thing.
