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"Moldy Tater Gangrene, even before Moscow Marge."
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Location: Dallas, TX
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Hates merely being around attractive women? Sounds like hating merely being around people. Although I myself can have misanthropic moments, I draw the line at coming to firm conclusions of people merely because of their looks. Otherwise, what's there to stop us from saying all badly-dressed obese people are at the bottom of the intelligence scale?
Tell ya what. Get to know individual beautiful (and badly dressed obese, too) individuals. That should cure you of making rash judgments of others.
The fact that you have never been ostracized for your looks means that you cannot understand how it is to be ugly, or the effect that it has on one's soul.
Sure we can, we've seen The Hunchback of Notre Dame.
I understand that you want to tax people for their looks. Which I call simple jealousy. /shrug
Hey guys. This may be obvious, but I think this comes from your own self-image, which can be "fixed". If you can tell yourself that you are beautiful too, then you belong in this group that you clearly feel outside of. Exercise a little, dress with some style (that doesn't mean expensive) or do what you need to feel good and confident about yourself. Take it a step further and think about your positive traits and talents and realize that you can be around anybody you want, no problem.
Sorry if this is cornyor obvious, just my thoughts.
It's obvious that the OP had more than one unpleasant encounter where said type of people were involved.
This trained him to remember the hurt every time a similar subject appears. Most likely this is not about his self worth (at least in the beginning), but mainly his reaction to particular experiences.
Subconcious feelings are hard to shake off. But if he realized this, it may help him ponder the issue with the right perspective, rather than beating himself up all over the place.
Last edited by Waterlily Pad; 01-26-2013 at 06:46 AM..
Hey guys. This may be obvious, but I think this comes from your own self-image, which can be "fixed". If you can tell yourself that you are beautiful too, then you belong in this group that you clearly feel outside of. Exercise a little, dress with some style (that doesn't mean expensive) or do what you need to feel good and confident about yourself. Take it a step further and think about your positive traits and talents and realize that you can be around anybody you want, no problem.
Sorry if this is cornyor obvious, just my thoughts.
Also you should probably cut back on the porn. It may be giving you unrealistic expectations of female attractiveness, and rendering you impotent to all but the most "perfect" female specimens.
Why do you fixate on the beautiful ones? There are probably a lot of women around who would enjoy talking to you, but I get the feeling you consider them beneath you.
There are probably a lot of women who would enjoy talking to me but I just don't have any sexual interest in them because I am not attracted to these women intimately (sexually they just don't turn me on).
I don't mind to women who do not sexually turn me on just like I talk to a regular male friend but I just will never have sex with a woman who does not attract me sexually.
The only kind of women that I would want will talk to me though are the ones I am sexually and intimately attracted to.
Last edited by Mr. Freak; 01-26-2013 at 11:51 AM..
There are probably a lot of women who would enjoy talking to me but I just don't have any sexual interest in them because I am not attracted to these women intimately (sexually they just don't turn me on).
I don't mind to women who do not sexually turn me on just like I talk to a regular male friend but I just will never have sex with a woman who does not attract me sexually.
The only kind of women that I would want will talk to me though are the ones I am sexually and intimately attracted to.
How is that working for you?
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