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We need a thread like this like we need a hole in the head.
I agree....way too much bitterness going around on the forum right now.
Every relationship you have had or will have will end somehow. ( drifting apart, breaking up, divorce, death)
Just because something ends, doesn't make the journey any less valuable. Every experience you have had, whether it's good or bad, helps make the person you are today.
I have had some pretty terrible things happen in my life, but I wouldn't change anything. I learned about myself from those experiences, and gave me depth and layers to my personality.
Instead of wallowing in bitterness and misery...choose to be happy. Seriously, it's a choice. You will find yourself finding someone, when you open yourself up to it.
I agree....way too much bitterness going around on the forum right now.
Every relationship you have had or will have will end somehow. ( drifting apart, breaking up, divorce, death)
Just because something ends, doesn't make the journey any less valuable. Every experience you have had, whether it's good or bad, helps make the person you are today.
I have had some pretty terrible things happen in my life, but I wouldn't change anything. I learned about myself from those experiences, and gave me depth and layers to my personality.
Instead of wallowing in bitterness and misery...choose to be happy. Seriously, it's a choice. You will find yourself finding someone, when you open yourself up to it.
Bitter people are like dating kryptonite.
Agreed.
Bitterness and hatred is completely pointless.
I understand it hurts, trust me. I do. But you can't let it dictate your life. Happiness is one of the best feelings in the world. Don't become something you hate, as you are only wasting your energy. It is a lot easier said than done, but after a little time goes by, you'll realize you're stronger after the experience and use it to help you in future ones.
How did you get to the mindset you have today? What events or observations shaped your views on women?
It's not obvious enough? Can I make a list for you? I love lists.
- Women cheated on them
- Women rejected them because they're short/tall/poor/dumb/ugly/crazy/pushover/aggressive/religious/weird/wrong race
- They've never had sex
- They've never had a relationship
- They've heard stories from other men
- Women only wanted them for their money
- Women only wanted them as friends
Im not bitter at women it was abuse as a kid by my mother and not having anything because of her drug usage. I have moved on but my experience as a child is why I am the way I am and nothing I do today will change that.
It's not obvious enough? Can I make a list for you? I love lists.
- Women cheated on them
- Women rejected them because they're short/tall/poor/dumb/ugly/crazy/pushover/aggressive/religious/weird/wrong race
- They've never had sex
- They've never had a relationship
- They've heard stories from other men
- Women only wanted them for their money
- Women only wanted them as friends
Also...women conspired to steal all their money via fatty alimony payments. Don't forget that one.
Im not bitter at women it was abuse as a kid by my mother and not having anything because of her drug usage. I have moved on but my experience as a child is why I am the way I am and nothing I do today will change that.
WRONG.
I am so sorry for the things your mother did to you - you deserved better.
But you are no longer that child she abused.
You are now the person who has to make a choice to either let what happened to you defeat you or not.
Only you can live your life, and you one get one life to live - choose wisely
Also...women conspired to steal all their money via fatty alimony payments. Don't forget that one.
Who said I was bitter at women I pay them no mind.
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