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Old 03-24-2015, 08:39 PM
 
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Old 03-24-2015, 10:26 PM
 
Location: On the "Left Coast", somewhere in "the Land of Fruits & Nuts"
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Social Basis of Human Behavior: Sex
The human male has a drive to impregnate as many females as possible, to create as many offspring with his genes as possible. (Ehrlichman & Eichenstein, 1992)

Paradoxes of Gender
The wish that generated the largest gender difference was "To have sex with anyone I choose". It was chosen by 28 percent of the men, but only 6 percent of the women. The gender differences were consistent across age ranges and religiousness.

When Harry Met Sally: Men And Women Cannot Be Friends
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Old 03-25-2015, 08:46 AM
 
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When you factor in natural selection, financial obligations and disease because of weak bloodlines or lack of immunity to various pathogens and forms of cancer and STD's. That is like countering the 1992 study with the culling of the herd and the extermination of the flock. If you kill the queen bee, all the bees who tend her hive die after her death.

It's best not to compare humans to animals. If they compare retarded people who are institutionalized. There is a reason they have to sterilize them. One argument is that those with higher levels of intelligence are not just more selective but they seem to have this ability to figure out the rat race.

Only the white race has shown resistance to HIV/AIDS in less than 1% of white males. You can imagine how science made this discovery. A gay man with hundreds of gay lovers who all died from HIV/AIDS spare for him. Hardly what you could call clinical medicine.

Perhaps the day of healthy role models setting a good example for the children of the world is necessary.
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Old 03-25-2015, 09:49 AM
 
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To expect a man to "turn off" his sex drive would be like telling you to stop eating. It is an uncontrollable "urge" which overpowers everything else!

Women are different from men. Don't expect a man to be able to do what you can do.

Note: The sex drive in *some* older men goes down with age. So try finding "friends" at your local senior center. Might have more success.
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Old 03-25-2015, 12:08 PM
 
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I'm super hot and have multiple male friends. They say I'm fun and easy to get along with or is it easy? I'm not sure
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Old 03-25-2015, 12:21 PM
 
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It's all about testosterone. Men typically have over 7 times more testosterone than women. I met a female body builder once who told me that when she went on a course of anabolic steroids, she had sex on her mind continuously and was bold enough to ask a pretty, well-endowed woman she saw on the street, for her phone number. She wasn't even bisexual, just hungry for any type of sex, lol.
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Old 03-25-2015, 02:18 PM
 
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I'm super hot and have multiple male friends. They say I'm fun and easy to get along with or is it easy? I'm not sure
If you're super hot they're not your friends, but you already know this.
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Old 03-25-2015, 02:36 PM
 
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If you're super hot they're not your friends, but you already know this.

I'm being a bit jokey actually, but, why wouldn't a super hot female be friends with a man I ask?
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Old 03-25-2015, 03:38 PM
 
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This may be a shock to you, OP....but brace yourself.
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Sex.
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Old 03-25-2015, 07:26 PM
 
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Default Why its hard for some men to be just FRIENDS with an attractive woman?

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Why?
Isn't that kinda the same thing as being married to an attractive woman who "always has a headache"…?!
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